Have my stretched ears blown out?

I stretched my ears and skipped a size two days ago. I went from a 14g to a 10g. They are pinchers so they are tapered. At first I couldn't get them all the way through so I only put them in half way. In like an hour my lobes stretched enough where I could fit them all the way through. They didn't hurt at first but the last two days they have. They aren't that painful but they are very sore to the touch. I have been washing them and I plan on using a saline soak soon. My lobes are very stiff and sort of red. I have not taken out the jewelry yet.