Re-asking her to prom?

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I asked a similar question a few days ago.
(Backstory) I had asked the Swiss exchange student at my school out about a month ago, she declined because her host parents wont let her date, however, she said she likes me.
I asked her to prom last Thursday. She said no, because her host parents are making her go with her host sister. I was told by some mutual friends of the host-sister that this is true..And sucks. A lot. 
My question:
Would it be weird to ask her to prom again? She is out of town for spring break, so I was thinking I would cover her porch in rose petals and have a bouquet of them at her door with a note that read "Prom?" (my name and # on the back), waiting for her when she got back.
--No, I'm not a creep. I know where she lives because I've driven her home from track meets before--
I over think everything, and I think I'm over thinking this, too.
All help is appreciated! Thanks!

Jack · Accepted Answer

I would not do that, in my opinion it's a little overboard - especually if the only reason she said no is because of her host parents... You should talk to the host parents and ask them if it would be ok to take her to the prom - then ask her again (if you get the OK). Present yourself nice and don't show them that you're crazy about her, make it more like you're a good friend (since they are against dating).

You could also just meet her at the prom, since she's going with her host sister and avoid the parents thing... 

Good luck!

A. G. · Answer

Awww that would be so sweet she would love it but i think that her host parents wouldn't like it and they would refuse and would still make her go with her host sister. maybe you can tell her to just meet you there without telling her host parents about anything or her host sister. you two can dance together, spend time and everything.

Beast · Answer

You are just putting pressure on her to disobey her host parents. If you want to try anything try asking her if you can talk to her host parents. Tell them that you really want to go with her and agree to any "be home by 10" rules they make. You can't expect her to disobey her host parents.You can only try to impress them and her.

Anonymous · Answer

If the host parents said no the first time, they're gonna say no the second time. It doesn't matter how sweet or cute it is. You're just asking to get hurt.

Anonymous · Answer

Ask her again, make stuff clear with her parents.
Don't put much pressure on her.
From my experience, when guys put pressure on me with something, I totally start ignoring them.
I have problems with my parents who don't want me to date.
And it's really annoying!!!(I KNOW WHAT SHE'S LIVING!)
And I can't do much things because of that.
So, No pressure!!

leeks · Answer

once you're pal with this guy, then it is going to likely be enjoyable. in case you slightly comprehend him and have different acquaintances, it's going to suck. except you incredibly like this guy, and out of your hesitance it type of feels which you do no longer. And only tell him you will think of approximately it. he will comprehend you have your reasons. I doubt the 1st component he'd think of is which you will desire to be waiting for somebody extra powerful. yet truthfully, i think of the extra powerful question is, what happens if somebody extra powerful does ask you, how do you tell this guy? he will maximum possibly locate out you chosen somebody else. Ouch. reliable good fortune!

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