Do you ever wonder what your first true love looks like now ?

Yes. So I searched for him on FB. Found him. Looked at his picture. Then I knew. I did NOT contact him. I was just curious what he looked like nearly 20 years later.

Yes -- although it depends on what you mean by "true love".

My first girlfriend hasn't changed much. I got to see her a couple of years ago, as we now live about 10 miles apart, over 1000 miles from where we grew up.

My first more-or-less mature love, a continuing caring relationship through college, I get to see about once a year, now that she's moved to the adjoining state.

My first long-term love also hasn't changed much. We trade email and photos every couple of years.

My post-college love has aged gracefully, and her daughter has her subtly incredible eyes. We've also traded photos recently, thanks to Facebook.

The first one who seriously discussed having children and a life with me is easy to know about, as we're still together. She thinks I have very nice friends. I think I married the best of the lot.

In my book, if you're really in love, that *should* transcend whatever causes your inability to make a life together.

No found her on facebook, she blew up. She was 5 foot 8 125 pounds and now she close to the 300 mark.

Yes, and I am shocked when I see him (it is my ex husband) He is crippled and can barely walk and has a pacemaker.

nope he's my brothers best friend and i have to see him almost every day at school ):

Nope. I'm still with mine (: x