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ok, feel wrong for asking but i feel i need a second opinion?

Well, at work im the manager and theres an employee that i think has the hots for to say the least and i would like to know if you will agree with me. These are the things that she does

-pokes me (arm, side, head)

-flicks my ear and grabbed it playfully once or twice(also flicks the back of my neck)

-hugs me at least once a day if not about 2 or 3 times

-when im sitting down, she likes to sit next to me or close to me about a little more than half the time and one time i guess she noticed i wasnt in the mood so she sits next to me and puts her legs on my leg as a foot rest while asking me "whats wrong?"

-randomly buys me a drink(not alcohol)

-always wants to help me out and looks out for me

-she has started to use phrases that i use

-one time, as we were leaving for the day, she accidently called me "baby" i didnt realize it until after she realized it and mentioned it again sayin "did i just call you baby?" all i did was smile and she said she was embarrased but jus shrugged it off and we went on our way

-says "i love u too" when i sometimes let her know with my facial expression that i didnt like something she did (work and non work related)

Also, she has a bf in which she started going out with about a month ago, which is one main reason aside from being coworkerd thats stoppin me from moving forward

now, do we agree? does she like me?? Should i even move forward since we DO work together???

I do like her too

Im 22 and shes 19

thanks for your opinions ^_^

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She definitely could have a crush on you, or she could be a natural flirt. Do you notice if she acts this way with many other guys? Do you want to be with a woman who has a boyfriend but doesn't see a problem with being flirtatious with other men? Most likely, if she does that with one boyfriend, she'd do that with you too if you started dating her.

    Source(s): I've seen plenty of flirtatious women before. Lots of men get hurt.
  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like she is flirting with you, a lot, bf or not bf. but as a manager you should know that having any kind of a relationship with her puts your job in jeopardy. workplace romances seldom work out, someone gets dumped or hurt and it affects the job. workplace romances between bosses and employees never seem to work out. be happy she likes you, but quit flirting back. you may end up the loser in this one.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She TOTALLY likes you lol. Unfortunately work relationships are certainly a bad idea. Even more so with her being in a relationship. But, If you feel she is someone who would really be worth it in the end, I say, follow your gut and go get her!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She likes you, but you have to confirm how you feel about each other.

    If the feeling is mutual, the next step it to tell her that you don't want to be shared with anyone else. She needs to brake off the relationship with her current boyfriend in order to be with you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are her manager this means you cant get into relationships with people you work with, it causes trouble and i have seen it back fire, what happens if you guys break up? things can get nasty and you don't want our job being on the line and important as well she has a boyfriend so out of bounds.

  • 1 decade ago

    id say go after her... like ask her crap like how was her day and how has she ben.. talk about the weather.. ask bout weekend plans.. if she says she dnt have any ask her to dinner or sumthing.. when she pokes u poke her back. when she hugs u try and sneak a kiss in.. it might work

  • 1 decade ago

    playfully put it out there in the open one dayy.. when shes bein real flirty just say something likee 'if i didnt know any better id think you were flirting with mee..' orrr 'does your boyfriend know this friendly with other men?..' LOL i dunno.. im a girl.. but obviously she has a thing for you haha.. i dunno.. best thing to do is ask i suppose or you'll never know.. but i do understand that since you work together and say she denies it.. it could be awkward.. but thing is you'll never know unless you try something lol.. but whatever you doo.. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    It does sound like she likes you but she may just be very flirtatious.

    I would keep doing what you are doing, keeping coy and not pursuing anything. When and if she and her boyfriend break up, then you could try.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    oh awkward. um she seems like a freak that plays around messing with you. She probally deosnt like you just finds it funny and she has a boy friend already so give up she doesnt like you

    Source(s): duh
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well she is flirting, but then again it could be mixed signal. no matter if she likes you or not do not date her until she is single. if you want to know just confront her, but do not start a affair.

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