How should I tell my mom Im pregnant when im 13 years old?

"Mom, I'm pregnant. Ok, I'm just going to give you some time to process it."

You should definitely tell your Mum , even though it may be difficult . It would be a good idea to have her support and for her to help you through your decision making . How to tell her ? perhaps you could tell her face to face , but take a support person along too . As for abortions , as simple as it sounds to get the procedure and move on there is a lot more to an abortion than that . Many people who have had abortions suffer from extreme guilt and even depression . Keeping the baby would also be difficult , but if you decided to do so , then having your mums support would be very helpful . Best of luck , take care .

Hi dear. Im here because my mom was pregnant when she was 14.. have my sister at 13 ..... dont be afraid dont be ashame and talk to your mother. She loves u.she will help u. If u dont feel comfortable go to near hospital and ask for help. They also can help u talk to your family. Remember having an abortion is very dangerous .u must have medical attention as soon as possible. u body change and u really need to see a doctor.

You should be asking instead: Am I capable of taking care of a baby financially, emotionally and physically? Or are you going to do like the rest of the teens and lay all that responsibility on mommy? If you and only you can afford this baby, go ahead and tell your mom your good news about raising a baby at 13. If you can t feel up to changing **** diapers, bottle feeding, getting up and 3 am at night while still going to school to get an education, then tell your mom there is no discussion. This is YOUR body and if the father can t hold his end of this responsibility that is huge, go and see your doctor for an abortion. Good luck and don't get pregnant again. My daughter got an abortion at 17 without my knowledge. She told me at 19 two years ago. I m glad she got it done or I might have talked her out of it. It was the right thing to do for her cause she knew how unfair it would have been to ask us to help her raise a baby. We raised 3. No wonder people want sons. They can turn around and run away from the responsibility of supporting the baby they fathered. They should help as accountable as the mom. If not, then you choose and don t feel bad by your choice. However, live with the consequences either way.

Girl you made a mistake. Your mom is going to be mad & if she is anything like my mom she will probably kick you out. But you thought you were old enough to open your legs so now you have to be responsible for that child as well as the dumb *** that knocked you up. You should tell both your parents and his parents. or maybe both of you should do it together so it is less scary. You will have to tell her eventually so it is better to do it now than later.

okay, start off by saying mom, I seriously need to talk to you, NOW, make sure you aren't in public because she will most likely be angry or upset, sad something emotional and strong that she would have to suppress until later, and that would make it worse.

For telling her:

-start off with telling her about your boyfriend if she doesn't know you have one

-say you know it was wrong but you made a mistake, you became sexually active

-you care for him, yourself, your parent(s), and the baby. your pregnant

-It may have been a mistake and it was irrisponsible, you know your too young:

THIS IS WHERE IT BRANCHES OFF INTO WANTING THE BABY OR ABORTION (ANOTHER FACTOR IS IF YOUR MOM IS FOR OR AGAINST ABORTIONS)

**want the baby**

but you don't want to kill the baby for your mistake

**want abortion**

you have a long life ahead of you and you plan to keep going, with a baby it would be to hard.

**if you don't know**

I made a HUGE mistake, I regret what has happenned but not what I did because everythings for a reason. Im just so confused and I don't know what to do, I know it's hard, but I need you now more than ever, I need you to help me and be here for me, please mom I love you and im so sorry *be sure to cry*

either way you need to make sure she sees how conflicted, hurt and confused you are

even if you aren't...it's called acting, fake it till you make it

Its your desicion while if you want to get an abortion or not . & it does depend on were u live & the cost ranges from how far along are yu in the pregnancy i hope yoh makw the right desicion its yur choice your body dont let nobody tell yu other wise good luck sweety ..

You need to tell your mom. Yes she's going to be mad, yes your going to get in trouble but guess what your pregnant and you need your moms help. Get to it & soon!!

You need to tell her. Abortions aren't free, they cost hundreds of dollars.

Plus, you need parental permission.

And if you are being serious, stop having sex if you don't want to get pregnant.

If you are in Europe, USA, or Canada you need parental permission for abortion if you are under 17(depending on country/state) years of age.

"Mom Im pregnant" Either way you tell her you still diserve to get punched in the mouth or being a dumb a*s

And I hope you know that when your that young you might lose the baby Naturally because your too young and your body can't hold the baby. When you los the baby theres a 50 percent chance that you might not make it..