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How can I make the boy who dumped me regret it?

Now Im not over him, but I dont want him back.

But other than looking hotter than usual.. what would drive him crazy?

Update:

We dated for a year, I know I plan to get over him. Id just like him to feel bad( yeah yeah Im a terrible person whatever) ;)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I totally get where you're coming from...It's like, yeah, I don't really like you, but I REALLY just wanna be in your FACE for a day, so it can help me get over you. I totally understand...

    Just don't say ANYTHING to him, unless you are forced to (e.g. walking in the hallway and there aren't a lot of people, and you guys make eye contact) then you just say "hi" or w/e, you come off as polite and easy but not CARING.

    DO NOT COMMENT on any stuff on FACEBOOK or crap like that, don't "Like" sh.it I swear to goodness, it will show that you care SOOO MUCH. I know that was an obvious rule, but I totally 100 percent did it and it was stupid. Even if a million people are commenting or Liking something from him, you're better off staying away, no matter how casual it'd seem. Anything can be interpreted wrong on Facebook and texting and Twitter and what not these days. Just DON'T BOTHER.

    If you find another boy who you think is attractive, don't jump on the bandwagon just cause you're tempted by emotions and showing off to your ex! Instead, take time to know the new guy, and then ask him out. And don't get extra huggy and stuff when you're ex is around, I'm sorry, but that's just so LAME. I've seen my ex do this a few times I swear, whenever I had to be forced to walk his path, he'd start wrapping his arms around his girl RIGHT AWAY. You don't wanna look OBVIOUSLY immature right?

    Overall, you just have to look like (preferably BE) you are okay without him, and that he's okay without you. You have to still be like that girl who he knew and was ATTRACTED TO. No matter how much anger you may have inside, I know I STILL have some even after all these months, but you dont' wanna be seen as the girl he was RIGHT to have broken up with, right? You still wanna be seen as the SMART GIRL that he knew and dated, but whatever you guys had just faded away...

    Take the high road, be smart, be chill, be YOURSELF. You are better off without boys anyways it's all DRAMA DRAMA regardless of how great or not great the relationship ended, or was.

    Good Luck!

    Source(s): experience,
  • 1 decade ago

    Dating a new guy. And always being happy and smiling and having a good time. Other than that, just ignore him. Don't revolve your life around trying to get him to regret breaking up with you or you will just prolong moving on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Being the dumper in most cases, means you've lost attraction. I'm assume this relationship wasn't too long.

    Just show him what your worth and he will see what he missed. other then that there is nothing more you can do but get over it xD

    Most girls I know normally try firting or dating another guy, making it obvious that they are over their ex.

    Most guys are dominators so when you don't do what they want they get jealous and controlling.

  • 1 decade ago

    I regret breaking up with one of my exes. She is such a strong women, very beautiful, smart, and has a great future. I wish I could share her life because she has a great future. Thats what makes me regret it. I guess it depends on the person.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Go out with other boys. Have fun. Let him see you don't care.But don't make a point of going where he goes, or trying too hard. Just act natural.If you do see him, just greet him as another casual acquaintance.

  • 1 decade ago

    Be happy? move on. You won't forget, but you'll get over him eventually...And don't do crap like saying you're life is better without him. He won't regret dumping you, you'll just kill his self-esteem/make him dislike you. Just move on, and be like before you were dating him...

  • 1 decade ago

    Make it seem like your loving life after e dumped you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the fact that you are hotter and going out with someone else who is hot too (preferably hotter than him)...

    good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't...sorry...you can try try try, but more than likely he's gonna get a new g/f and you're gonna lose...just search for another boyfriend sheesh

  • Dj
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Be happy, let him know how happy you are without him.

    Chat to alot of other guys

    Ignore him completely :)

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