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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

getting mixed signals...?

I have been friends with a girl pretty much the whole school year. We have been in two classes together over the year, one this semester and one last semester. In the class we had together last semester, I frequently caught her looking back at me (I sat a row behind her), and in the class this semester I caught her looking at me out of the corner of my eye (we sat across from each other a couple rows). I had developed some feelings for her in this time, and I had told her about them. However, my timing wasn't good, as she had recently gotten out of a relationship. She said that she just wanted to be friends, and I told her I understood and respected her decision. Even after that, though, I would catch her staring at me. I wasn't sure if she had feelings for me too, at this point, or if the whole thing had just become a habit. Any ideas? Thanks.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think she likes you. She doesn't want to say anything because she told you she wanted to be just friends not too long ago. I would feel stupid if I were to say 'yeah well...u know do u still like me? even though i wanted just friends?' You need to make a move for her. Tell her you still like her, whenever she might change her mind. Tell her that you still do respect her decision, and that you don't want to sound like you are hounding her, you just wanted to let her know that you will be there for her.

    Good Luck :)

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