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Relationship question?

I usually avoid asking these type of questions to the best of my ability, but I figured there's no harm in asking.

My boyfriend is 19, I'm 18. We've been really good friends for the past 2 or 3 years. We decided a couple months ago to try dating. And so far, so good. The only thing I have an issue with is that I'm a virgin, and he's definitely been around the block a couple times with a good handful of girls. When we were friends, it didn't bug me but now that we're dating, it gets to me a little.

Do you think it's normal for this to make me feel a little uneasy? I hate this high school drama boyfriend issues crap. But I just want to know if it's ok to be a tad upset or what you think I should do about it.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes it's definitely normal! I felt the same way when my boyfriend and I started dating. I was always extremely mad at him about it for some reason, it was awful. Well to spite him for it (and because I guess I use to be really immature) I told him that I would never lose my virginity to him and decided to break up with him just so I could have sex with someone else so I'd feel okay to have sex with him. Ha and that's exactly what I did; it was the dumbest decision of my life! We did get back together and have been together for 5 years, but I still can't believe I was that immature about something that he did before we had even met. Sorry that was probably TMI, but the moral of my story is: it's normal, but nothing that should get in between ya'lls relationship. He slept with those girls before ya'll were together and theres nothing that can be done about it now. You can try talking to him about it, but that might make things weird. If I could redo my decision I would personally just try to forget about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think the most sensible thing to do is to talk about it. You're friends, so you should be able to be pretty open with each other. Just be honest about how you feel, and hopefully he'll understand and be able to put you a little more at ease. There's no sense keeping these feelings bottled up.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes it's normal. I'll feel the same way. You should either get over it, try talking to him about it, or try talking to someone else about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think it's okay to be upset. I would be. But him going around the block while he's with you would be a bigger concern to me.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes it is normal. but everyone is different.

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