Can an abusive guy ever change?should I go back with my ex abusive boyfriend?

No, just that simple. These guys don't change. Sometimes they stop for a while, but they always start back up again sooner or later, and over the long run just keep getting worse. Even if he believes that he has changed, he will go back sooner or later. He will come up with some excuse or rationalization as to why him doing it is different this time and you'll be right back where you started.

Don't let the 6 months and a few people not sticking around get to you too much. Most people I know after a breakup from a relationship that lasted a year or longer took at least that long to get back in a stable relationship, and you weren't even coming from the stable position they were. These things take time, so give yourself some and find yourself someone you KNOW you can trust and will treat you right. No one deserves less than that.

im a really good liar too honestly and i used to do sum **** that i dont do anymore that would hurt my S.O. but i fell deeper in love with her and dont feel any need to b anything but good to her. Ive changed i think not completely but i have. so i think ppl do change, but a guy should never ever ever hit a girl no matter how pissed he is thats just messed up and u probly should b with sum1 that knows that. if i were you id say hell no, listen to your friends, theyre the 1s that truly care for your wellbeing. If you really feel the need to be with him thogh let him know that you wont put up with that **** and if heever lays a finger on you again youll leave him! hope this helps :)

Holy Jeez!

What's up with us women? Stay away from that guy.Even the other guy who kissed you; just become friend. Stay away from a relationship with wither of them for a while. For the time being, just have your "YOU" time. It isn't selfish. First you've gotta learn to love yourself, because currently, you don't; otherwise, you wouldn't be believing that the guy who abuses you loves you.

stay away from relationships and sex for a while. When the time is right, youll know!

Just like the abused girl can never change and will always go back to the one who treats her like $hit, the abusive guy also can never change. It's a match made in heaven!

Lets count this out

1. He hits you

2. He mentally abuses you

3. Parents hate him, friends hate him

4. Is a liar

Where is the good part again? Maybe think about those fond memories of the bruises and think about it again.

-Shawn

well honestly its up to him weather he wants to change or not and really the only way you can tell if he has is if his actions show it

and dont put out ie sex until your married with him this will tell you weather hes truly in love with you and wants to marry you or just wants sex from you

and make sure the most important thing to remember is make sure his actions match his words if not than leave if he hits you again you need to call the police

how ever my personal exp that i had with his is my ex didnt change and she was still very abusive so i never got back with her

People do change, but I'd say it's time for another girl to test the waters.

I like to believe that everyone can change, but in cases like this, it's highly unlikely. A person who has love in their heart couldn't hurt someone they love intentionally. People who hurt intentionally are wrong.

Have you ever used Pull Your Ex Back strategy? Start on this page : http://exrecoveryformula.com/ . It might surely benefit anyone!

You need to get away from him, ASAP. There is no good in him. Go to your local domestic violence shelter and get a counselor there to help you recover.