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After sex insomnia? Any tips?

Can't complain about my sex life lately. My significant other comes over and stays the night quite a bit. The problem is that after we make love, he can fall asleep no problem. I end up entangled in his arms watching him breathe or snore. I think the sex is kinda like my jolt of caffeine. I'm usually wide away and stay that way for hours. Sometimes I fall asleep for small periods at a time but usually I get up watch TV or get a book and lie next to him and read. Anybody have any tips to help me fall asleep with him?? I want him to wake up and see me sleeping next to him for once.

Update:

Paula, if I were truly bad, wouldn't I want to fall asleep to forget it than stay awake droning over it. See the flaw in your logic??

Update 2:

I'm gay, if that helps.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sex affects us all differently - guy, girl, straight, gay - would help if you let us know?

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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    Source(s): Insomnia Solution http://renditl.info/StopInsomniaForEver
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Don't do the liquor thing, it's not good for you, and doesn't work, anyway. You need some long term stuff here, not just insomnia treatment. You need to find your self worth, and it is not in finding someone else to cuddle with. You need to build self confidence, self esteem, and know you are able to love and be loved. If you think your looks are holding you back, then do something about it. get a second opionion from a close friend, but be ready to hear the answer. then be ready to do something about it, like a makeover, or perhaps, work out. Exercise, diet and good self esteem will help you feel better, and you will sleep better from the workout. workouts are a great thing, because they work your mind as well as your body, and you can benefit from both! eat an early dinner, with a light dessert if need, that doesn't have caffeine or high sugars, that could keep you up. chamomile tea, and a good stretch usually helps you can also try Yoga.... and guess what? lots of great gals sign up for yoga too, and would be happy to help a guy with learning the poses and stretches.... possibly make new friends? I wish you luck, and hope this helps!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Try getting up & using the bathroom, after I pee I fall right to sleep with my boyfriend after intercourse, of maybe you should try & get comfortable sometimes if I'm not comfortable I can't sleep

    Source(s): Just some stuff I do
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sleeping pills?

  • Steve
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Hey its grandpa lemon

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    probably cause you were really bad and you just want to forget how bad you really were. its okie. happens to the worst.

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