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Does he like me? How to not like a guy? Boy and Girl oppinion...?
Hi! Er.. This is hard to explain, I would if it's not too personal, like you to answer with your gender so I know what a girl would say to this and what a boy would say to this... And please read it then answer, not just answer....
You see, I like this guy in my class, and ever since I liked him, which was for like, two years now, I have been worrying WAY MORE than ever about what I look like and what marks for tests and all because I'm a little embarrassed in front of him and his friends. So you see, I sorta want to NOT like him if it's possible.. I know it sounds weird but, It'll make me be more myself again, I just have a sort of Instinct to be PERFECT around him...
And, I also wanna see if he likes me on your opinion, I've noticed that at random times i've flashed a glance at him and he's staring at me, and SOMETIMES when I look he quickly looks away, and I'm not sure if he's been doing it to other people or not, I think he does it when he's bored in class or thinking about a question in a test or something, ya know how you just stare into space while working out a hard quietsion at some times? So I'm quite nervous.... thanks guys!
P.S. You don't have to put your gender, just that it would be a little easier, that's all...
Thanks every one for all of your answers, but I forgot to add that he is like one of the popular kids, I have a lot of friends with me and all, three of my other friends like him too, so yeah.. It's just that I'm scared of flirting with him cause I'm scared that it would just pass around the school like a wild fire?
And the reason why I don't want to like him is cause I have a great friend her name is Chloe and she you could almost say is perfect, i know everyone says that there is no such thing as perfect, but once you see her, she's the best friend ever, she NEVER downs herself or anyone, she's funny and smart, she's pretty but has no cruches or has had any boyfriends or anything, but yet, i'm pretty sure that the guy I like likes her, cause she's not afraid to play around with them and talk to them.. that's why I don't want to like himas such, so then I couldn't get really nervous and ket anything slip while I'm talking, thanks heaps for your answers, i sorta think maybe just when
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well, surely you should try and find out wheather he likes you back or not. If you are too shy to go and talk to him you'd better use your body language... You know, look at him adn when he looks back at you don't look away... Smile at him for no proper reason... And stuff like that... If he likes you he'll get the hint and ask you for your feeling or something...
Now, as for the part you instinctively try to be awesome in front of him, it's not good!!! :P Seriously, guys like girls who act normal around them and not perfect girls that act snobbish and like they are the most wonderful human being in the history of man. So, try and get over that... You don't have to un-like him... Just be yourself and act normally... Things are going to get better, trust me... And if he sees you get more relaxed and cool, he'll ask you out or whatever...:D
Btw, I'm a 15-year-old girl... If that helps at all... xD
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I am a female. You have to relax. I know it's hard but you have to be yourself. Guys like that. When you try too hard, they know. If you talk to him, maybe you can flirt a little or hint you are interested. Find out what you guys have in common. Maybe after you get to know him, you might realize he's a loser. Sometimes we build people up in our minds and put them on a pedestol. If you don't really talk to him, you can't possibly know if he's starring at you because he's attracted or just thinking. You may be thinking way too much into this. My advice is, get to know him more. That will make him more approachable and easier on you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Im male.............I hope I am :)
he does like you and notices you, those signs are a way he does like you..... if you dont want to like him or have him return it then smile and know he likes you and be satisfied with that!
personally you can do both! work hard and do well and having a healthy friendship with a guy will be beneficial to your well being and give you a boost in energy!! if you dated and it worked out then thats even better as happinness from that would transgress into a more uplifting and positive attitude!
:)
statistics from some studies ive read over the years stated that people in satisifying relationships were far more successful in all aspects of their life!
its all good!
cheers
- 1 decade ago
Hey well im a 16 year old guy, and i feel exactly the same way around the girl i like but yeah i'll tell you now straight up, if a guy likes you, he will like you. You dont have to be perfect around guys you just gotta be yourself, chill, laugh, joke, be yourself. That's the thing that'll get a guy. If you try to be perfect around him he might feel a bit confronted or something. Just be yourself. I'd suggest start taking to him more and more often, message him, inbox him on facebook, invite him to places. Because if a guy likes you that's what he'd want, or that's what i'd want anyway haha.
Hope i helped :) Could you try and help me with my question please <3? Much appreciated goodluck! :)
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