GIRLS I NEED ADVICE ASAP...?

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Okay so I like this girl, shes really cute. I'm 16 and ive had a crush on her since bout october. i think she knows i do but i dont know for sure. well anyways i know we have a lot in common except that im really shy around her like really shy, and shes pretty social but not a popular girl. i know she doesnt party like me and listens to same music as me, john mayer. i usually stay home on weekends and write music and stuff. shes in choir and has an amazing voice. but anyways heres the question since i think she has a bf should i talk to her, cause i volunteered to play guitar for a school mass where shes choir in. is that smart or not. OH and i always catch her looking at me its not random eye contact because it happens every time i see her. and she doesnt look away quickly but i do cause im shy as sh....it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You sound really sweet... Just saying... Yea you should go talk to her... And yes it was a good idea to play guitar for the school mass... You mint impress her... But i think you should wait a little bit after she breaks up with her bf and ask her out...

Anonymous · Answer

You should try saying Hi to every once in a while, so she will notice you more then try talking to her, Im also shy so when Im around other people I try to force myself to act  like the more social people do. You should definitely play guitar at the school mass, it might impress her, you should also ask her for advice on a song your writing or something like that.

AMMCC · Answer

Well im in kinda the same situation--- i think the best thing to do is just have a normal conversation and try very very hard not to be shy-- u dont want 2 give a girl mixed signals cuz then theyre just confused and yeah, so my advice is be yourself and try not 2 be shy... Hope i helped :)

trapani · Answer

Do something lovable to get her interest, like provide her a cheesy little present from 1 / 4 gadget and tell her you think of she's particularly/fantastic/humorous(despite) Then the subsequent time you notice her, ask her to get coffee with you. in case you connect nicely, see the place it is going! you will by no capacity understand until you attempt, and what have you ever offered to lose? while i replaced into your age, i replaced into all quiet approximately my crushes, and years later, have found out that each and all of the boys I 'secretly' enjoyed, additionally enjoyed me! So talk up or continually carry your peace :-) sturdy success skippy.

Lola · Answer

Well you could try to talk to her, and if you see it doesn't go very well, and its too awkward you could just say you have to get going. Like just ask her if she's nervous or whatever you think she would like to talk about, but I"m not sure, I don't think I should be giving advice about crushes when i need help with my crush, but don't give up :)

sweetpea · Answer

well if she has a boyfriend than i don't really think you should mess with her but if you really wanna get to know her try becoming friends with her not to close because you don't want her boyfriend to get up all in you face but anyways try to find someone who knows her and get t know her and at least try to say something random to start a conversation with her like i like your shirt or tell her how amazing her voice is :D good luck! :p

Kelsey · Answer

It sounds like u should try to get and know her. she sounds nice. get to know her find out her likes and dislikes. as for being shy around her girls like it when guy are sweet and kind. maybe try and open up to her lil be lil. if u add me i can help u more on Messenger. my user is Peanut0926@yahoo.com. Hope it works out for u.

Love.a.nerd · Answer

Sounds like you have alot in common. you should be her friends and be there when she breaks up with her boyfriend. give her some time then ask her out. (:

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