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Okay so I like this girl, shes really cute. I'm 16 and ive had a crush on her since bout october. i think she knows i do but i dont know for sure. well anyways i know we have a lot in common except that im really shy around her like really shy, and shes pretty social but not a popular girl.i know she doesnt party, same with me and listens to same music as me, john mayer. i usually stay home on weekends and write music and stuff. shes in choir and has an amazing voice. but anyways heres the question since i think she has a bf should i talk to her, cause i volunteered to play guitar for a school mass where shes choir in. is that smart or not. OH and i always catch her looking at me its not random eye contact because it happens every time i see her. and she doesnt look away quickly but i do cause im shy as sh....it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    she DEFINITLY likes you :D omg omg omg this exactly happened to me with my current boyfriend we were both in play together. even though she has a boyfriend that doesnt mean that she doesnt like you. she might just think you dont like her so shes settling for someone else. you will probably want to talk to her a LOT in person and over text bt mainly in person because girls really love it when guys talk to them in person as long as your not awkward in person. Also dress really really nice for when you'll see her (pick something that matches your eyes) so she'll have another reason to stare at you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your shy, i totally understand. Dont assume she has a boyfriend, cause then your giving yourself a reason to not go after what you want. Just go up to her and ask her to get smoothies are something. Its casual but not too much. So then you could start to getting to know her and becoming more comfortable with her. I hope it works! And its so cute you guys both are in to music! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you guys don't text then definitely get her number and talk to her.

    You don't want to miss your opportunity to get her to be your girl.

    Ask her to hang out, really get to know her.

    If sparks don't fly I would be very surprised cause it seems you really care for her and just show her who you are and I'm sure she'll fall for you too.

    If she does have a boyfriend who cares your probably a better guy anyways.

    I say grow a pair and go for it, I understand it's hard but I'm sure it's worth it.

    You have nothing to lose, become her friend and try to progressively become more.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just say something, the worst that can happen is that she says no. If you don't want to and be safe with the little image of her in your head then just stop liking her because you are preventing yourself from letting any of that happen in the near future and it is just wasting your time. As a girl, it is always better when the guy does the first move.

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  • 1 decade ago

    just take a deep breathe and talk to her.

    ask her if she has a bf,

    tell her how you feel about her

    and if shes single ask her on a date. you could do something like write a song together.

  • 1 decade ago

    from the looks of her looking away quickly that probably means shes crazy for you ask her out (: you never know what it could bloom into keep talking to her even though she has a boyfriend let her know you will be there for her thick or thin . goodluck hope i helped (:

  • 1 decade ago

    Just walk right up to her and ask her, do you have a boyfriend? Cuz I'd like to ask you out otherwise. I like you.And would like to get to know you. Are you intrested? Whatever she says doesn't matter. At least you'll get it over and either get into her or move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Start by going up to her and say hi & spark up a convo. If she likes you then she will be willing to hang out more & getting to know you better.

  • panda
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Go ahead and talk to her. Even if she does have a boyfriend, it doesn't mean she can't talk to other guys.

  • 1 decade ago

    i am currently in a relationship with a guy like that. I have liked him for a year and we always catch each other looking at the other one. He's shy as well and i hate it. I just want him to talk to me already!! Its so annoying because most girls like me dont want to initiate first. We like it when the guy talks to us first. So please please please! just ask her out or tell her shes cute and that u wannaa chill with her! PLEASE DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! cuz for me, i want that guy to just ask me out already but i hate that hes so shy! i like shy boys but not that shy!

    just do it!

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