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Is he cheating on me?! Aries Man?
Me and my boyfriend were great until I broke up with him & we reconnected. He's an Aries and I'm a Leo. We were always getting into it and fussing after that break up. I would accuse him of cheating, lying and everything until I was proven that he wasn't. Recently, we got into an argument where I completely went off. He ignored my text message where I went off. I went on Facebook to see him comment on some girls account "I got a question to ask you when I come home.. ;)" I texted him saying that maybe we should break up and things would be better. He ignored that one too. Finally he called back and told me he`s ignoring it because it's pure negativity. So I'm like... okay? I asked him without any attitude about the comment and he owned up to it saying he did & there's nothing for me to worry about. Later, I got a phone call from my friend saying she saw him comment on another girls status and it seemed like he was flirting. I asked him about it & he owned up to it & read her status and his comment. He told me it was nothing serious and that only thing she did was like the comment and for me to chill out. He keeps bringing up the fact that I broke up with him.. I got arrested recently and he keeps bringing that up every time I mention that I want to go out. He's coming home to visit next week so he's really been feeling himself. Right now, he's asleep on the phone and I'm just wondering. Ever since he called back, I kept acting like.. nonchalant and like "whatever" I wasn't blowing him off.. but I had that attitude like "I'm not fussing with you tonight.." I don't know.. I mean, he says "I love you.." but it's not every day like it used to be. I don't know.. is he cheating?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi okay i dont think signs have anything to do with you and him being together just saying lol. usually after a breakup and getting back together it either makes you all stronger or worse than before. If you have no trust in a relationship then its deffinalty not going to work. I thought my bf was cheating on me but if you really love them you have to put things in the past and start over fresh and trust. And i dont think hes cheating on you i just thinks your smothering him and being negative and that may be putting him down and not want to work on the relationship as much. I'm not taking his side but Ive been in your shoes and i stop and thought about it. With my bf i was freaking out like you were and was being very clingy and wanting to know were he was and what he was doing. But i could tell i was pushing him away instead of bringing him closer. Now that Ive trusted my bf more and just let him have his own time and let him do more stuff without me our relationship is getting better and better everyday. Yeah, i might still get a little jealous every now and then but then you realize whats the point because hes with you and if he didn't want you then i dont think he would waste his time i mean hes giving you a second chance. Also i wouldn't throw stuff up out of the past in his face and he doesn't need to do that to you either.
- PamLv 61 decade ago
Actions speak louder than words! Talk is cheap, but his actions tells me that he is keeping you, but he is looking at other options and the moment he finds a taker, I think being an Aries man, he won't just tell you and break up with you, he'll just see that other girl on the side until you find out. Then he'll make excuses and try to somehow place the blame on YOU or something you did, rather than accept responsibility for his actions. My advice would be to dismiss him and move on. What you have with him is a one way street and you are wasting your time at this point. You can do better.
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Me and my boyfriend were great until I broke up with him & we reconnected. He's an Aries and I'm a Leo. We were always getting into it and fussing after that break up. I would accuse him of cheating, lying and everything until I was proven that he wasn't. Recently, we got into an...
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I think you should calm down, stop over thinking it and let bigons be bigons. As hard as it is, I know, but you have to do it. As a woman that is always over analyzing, I know what it is like to be your own worst enemy and suspect every move he is makin you are catchin.. but unfortunately, you only hurt yourself when you are paranoid. Be aware. Always be aware of his actions. But pick your battles. Don't sweat a silly facebook comment unless it is offensive and clearly cheating material. He will get turned off by your insecurity and your constant harassment. Remember, we all decide to be in relationships in hopes that they will enhance our lives, not trouble them. He can easily move on because you annoy the hell out of him and he is tired of getting bashed and explaining himself for being an innocent man. Then you will regret pushing him away. You don't want to be in a push pull relationship... ex: "get the F*** out!! ... wait nevermind, come back!..
You don't want that constant drama and neither does he.
You need to make a conscious decision on whether he is too sketch for you to stay with him or you love him enough to believe he wouldn't do you wrong. Choose a side and stick to it. No back and forth, it just gets ugly and unattractive.
Good luck :-/
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- Anonymous5 years ago
Some liars and cheaters are Aries men but not all Aries men are cheaters and liars. In other words, some do, some don't. Maybe your boyfriend needs some elbow room.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes