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Should I introduce myself to him...?

I apologies for posting on M&D but I feel that this is a matured crowd and and can make a better input. So pls, my apologies, in advance.

I work at a big fed government research institute, where there are many departments. I am currently single and there is a young man that I see every so often, while at work. We don't work together, he works in Urology. I work in the ICU. I saw him again a week ago and I asked a few co-workers who he was. I found out he was single and currently finishing up on his medical fellowship... I looked him up in my job's staff directly and got his full name, work email address/phone number and department info.

Again, I only see him about once every random 3-5 months. I've always had a strict policy that I don't date people that I work with or that go to the same gym as me, since these are two very important places to me and I don't want to feel awkward going there, if things don't work out. I do like him (he seem respectful, quite and humble) and would like to introduce myself to him. Would it me crazy to send him a brief email saying hi (since I might not see him again for the next few months... and who knows when he will be done and leaving)... or will that be a good way to do it? What are your opinions and what do you suggest? Would that be a bit much?

Thanks a lot, in advance.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you don`t try you`ll never know, and you might have missed yr chance in life.

    Contact him, and ask him if you can be friends, and maybe go out for a coffee and a chat.

    What have you got to lose. If he ignores you so what: you didn`t know him anyway.

    He`ll be very aware of the score.

  • 1 decade ago

    The policy that you introduced to yourself was produced by your ego and not by your heart.

    The heart doesn't know these things and actually even care but to real feelings, like the one that you're manifesting toward this soul. The heart cares for connection between souls and that's what really matters because the body NEVER lies.

    I believe that nothing, in this earth, happens without a reason so, do not be shy. Swallow your policy and go for it! He could be your other half and you'll only know if you try.

    Thank you for the opportunity to try to help you.

    Have a splendid new day, every day!

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