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Nick asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

im depressed and stuck in life, what should i do ?

since last 6 months i have been struggling with my life, and now im on a stage where i dont see a future, i feel like suiciding the one whom i was living for that are my parents and my dad has been fighting with me and my mom for no reason, we love him and care for him that is why we keep trying to keep him out of certain states where he can be insulted or disrespected by the society.. my maid has been trying to manipulate my dad's mind and now we're at a stage where my dad wont even listen to me and my mom even if we keep telling him things that are going wrong, our life is on rocks ..he keeps threatening of giving away our house and everything to trust and everything and has asked my me and my mom to find our self a home and a job for a living.. i am very depressed ..i dont know whats happening; this is something i never expected to happen in my family. i can't even hurt him or leave him like this .. :( :( plz help

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  • 1 decade ago
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    be relax . Take brisk walk

  • 1 decade ago

    Right, sadly, I'm an *** and I'm going to say stuff you may think is harsh but really is the right thing to do, sorry I'm just straight forward like that -

    You and your mum - Leave him, let him live he's life, if he doesn't want to listen, then you don't listen, secretly look for a job, you and your mum, and when you save up a bit of cash, just walk out at night, I'm not sure if he's a drunk or what, but if you walk out telling him, things might get a little crazy. Walk out and phone him up, you can even stay with your mums parents till things get up and going.

    Or what you can do it: Fire the maid, if he gets to annoyed, then leave. Tbh if he's going to listen to the maid over you, why are you and your mum with him? Lifes a ***** I know, but you got to be strong to survive.

  • 1 decade ago

    get away from your problems, like learn a language eg German then when you have money go to Germany, Switzerland or Austria

    or any other language

    Also go for a run often, it relaxes you more, keeps you less stressed and when you're out of breathe you don't even think about your problems only thing you think about is not being able to breathe

    Things will get better, and NEVER see suicide as an option.

    Suicide doesn't get rid of the pain, it only passes it down to loved ones.

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    1 decade ago

    I feel sorry for you.and your mom. you have not mentioned what your age is.

    Consult a lawyer..if he is sick which i feel so, get him treated by a psychiatrist.

    Publish in paper that you and your mother are the sole owners to the property, house etc.then leave him alone...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    succide is not the solution

    but if u dont want to see ur mother in trouble then dont succide.

    take proofs of ur father when ur mom want devorce ur mom atleast get money

  • 1 decade ago

    did you call the poilce

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