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Is my girlfriend really stressed or just blowing me off?
Been dating a girl for 6 mos. Her last boyfriend was abusive ending w/ a restraint order. We have never had a fight and enjoy each other, she always sends texts and calls frequently. About month ago she suddenly stopped returning my calls to the point I was actually worried for her safety because it was so out of character. Finally she text me and said she had some other crap going on, nothing to do w/ me. I gave her a week and a half of time and called but no response. Finally went to see her at work and flat out asked her if she wanted to be done, she swore that was not it but continued to blow me off. She said her grandma was really sick and she was going to see her at the end of the semester. She never contacted me after that but I saw on a friend who introduced us Facebook page she was coming down to see him. I have her the benefit of the doubt and trusted her, didn't call or text for another week. Finally when she was back and still would not call or answer the only two times I tried, I went to see her at work. As soon as she saw me she acted very angry and stressed about things at work. I asked again if she wanted to stop hanging out and agin she said no, she said she didn't bring her phone to visit her grandma, (which she never went to see, instead she hung out at padre with her friend who is a guy) then she just walked away, tried to follow her back into the storeroom and she told me I couldn't be back there. Why won't she just say she's done when I give her the opportunity
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You're going to have to let go.
If you keep doing all the work to maintain contact like this, you'll either smother her or you'll set a pattern for the future where she knows you'll always do the same.
Just leave her alone until she calls you back on her own.
- robert120513Lv 51 decade ago
You don't need to tell her it's over. She's already told you. Don't call any more and move on. She's got someone else, but doesn't want to finish with you yet in case she doesn't like the new guy.
- 1 decade ago
She is playing you, most women who claim they come from abusive men are hoes. She probably was caught cheating and he got so pissed something happened. I say forget about her but keep her as your girl, flirt around, find yourself a nice girl if it works out break out with your current g/f... You should should find out if she's cheating on you... Chances are she is.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Shes stressed
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- 1 decade ago
sounds like shes just trying to keep you around dude. Just tell her that you want to sit down and talk and if she cant do that just end it. Dont let her mess with you
- 1 decade ago
Dead honest................you need to tell her straight up," i want to know whats going on, or were over" because im a girl, and i have no idea why any chick would act like that
- 1 decade ago
ah aah.. don even care fr her shes bad.. stay away shes lookin or hangin out wit sum1 ls..tis is abt to dump u..u overtake her dump her instead..get rid off tat gal...
- 1 decade ago
She's just blowing you off.Don't you think she would make time for you if she really cared about you that much?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Break up with her. Sounds like she is playing you.
