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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My boyfriend would rather play video games than spend time with me. Should I break up with him?

He is 23 and likes to play Call of Duty and World of Warcraft. And when I ask if he wants to hang out/go out or have sex he always says no let me finish the level first. And when he does have sex he goes straight to sex without foreplay and cums in less than 10 seconds (usually 2 pumps) so he can go straight to playing. He is small like 3 inches but I don't care. I love him.

But the lack of sex and any emotinal attachment he has for me is making me want to leave he sometimes hits me if I don't bring him a drink or have dinner ready by the time he is finished with the game. He has no job and I do the working. Should I break up with him?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    LOL ok.

  • 1 decade ago

    I suppose that depends on how much you and everyone else love him. At the very least, the dude needs a serious talking to. I'm talking intervention here. If his gaming is consuming all his time, he's an addict and should do something about it. On the other hand, his violence could need rehab efforts also. He must be aware that he's in danger of losing you, but I think you need to get his attention or he won't face up to that. I would suggest you and his family get together and talk it out with him. Let him know in no uncertain terms that you WILL leave if things don't change. I don't think you should confront him on your own. His violence is a concern and he probably won't respond well if it's just you.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should leave him. He has a small dick, can't last in bed, hits you and plays that trash Call Of Duty all day. I know you love him but there are better guys out there who have a bigger penis and would love to plow you all day. He does know there is a pause button right? So he can pause *** in his 10 seconds and go back. Next time you ask for sex and if he doesn't pause just smash his 360/PS3 and break up with him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you want sex, then just climb on top of him , while hes playing the gAME...straddle him and start to take off youre shirt.. he will drop the remote in about three seconds

    and btw you shouldnt date guys like that.. a guy should NEVER hit a girl.. you sound wayy too gud 4 that\

    dont let him push u around

    Source(s): been there:)
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  • 5 years ago

    if he's not willing to put in effort into your relationship, maybe there shouldn't be one

  • MrHet
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You sound like quite a decent girl, he sounds like a no-lifer who wastes your time.

    You're asking for advice but I'm pretty sure you already know what needs to be done.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    The solution is simple. Start dating his video games. That way he'll get get jealous, and break his video games.

  • 1 decade ago

    well that would be a silly reason to break up but my opinion is , talk with him first tell him that u need him beside you & then if he keep doing this break up !!

  • 1 decade ago

    You should make him a sandwich and see if that helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    he is NOT worth your time, i just broke up with someone like that... you are wasting your life staying with him, ... they dont care. trust me

  • 1 decade ago

    Take a look at this .........its funny

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtWurY7wtpc&feature...

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