I find oral sex distasteful both giving and receiving.?

I think you need to become more comfortable with your own nudity, not others. Though I am young and still a virgin, I am not disgusted or embarrassed in any way by my own nudity. I think either form of the human body is beautiful, though I find it most tasteful to cover it up unless in proper company (such as a spouse). I can understand not being comfortable with others' nudity but it isn't bad so long as it isn't forced upon you or anything. Are you married? If so, your husband's body should be beautiful to you, naked or not. If you aren't married or in a committed relationship, those sorts of feelings, in my opinion, should keep to themselves.

I think you should try looking at yourself in the mirror naked. Become more comfortable with your own naked body. Its a beautiful thing and its the only body you've got! I'm not saying sleep around or be naked near everyone, but I'm surprised to hear a woman say she doesn't like to be seen naked! I feel it important to feel a confidence while nude, even if it means you are alone. As I said, I don't know if you are married/committed or not, but if you are, the man you are with should love your naked body even more than you do!

I might add, the taste and smell of one's genitalia, when clean should not bother you. But if you don't like oral sex, screw it. You shouldn't and don't have to be forced to give or recieve it. That's how you feel, you haven't got to do it. Its your body and your mouth, YOU should enjoy what you do with it the most.

In the end, if you find looking at yourself naked or building up your "nude self confidence" does not work, maybe you have a more "traditional" outlook on the human body. Some people are like that. I for one, hate feet with a passion. Can't stand to see them. If you don't like nudity and no matter what, don't care for it, make sure you are with someone who understands and respects your position.

I hope I helped, though this is rather long ^^

I agree with you when you say human (or any genitalia) is somewhat ugly. But I don't notice any specific smell or taste, maybe your partner may not be completely clean. I personally wash right before having oral sex, and I ask the same from my husband. We sometimes shower together so I make sure to wash him well :-). I love receiving and giving.

About being seen naked, I personally am very comfortable naked, I sleep naked, and walk around the house naked. ( no I am not a size 4 or even close) I figure if my husband doesn't like it he can look away :-) If I were you I would try to figure out what exactly about your body makes you uncomfortable and maybe try talking about it with a Professional (psychologist or sexologist) to make you feel more at ease.

Good Luck!

Everybody has their own quirks. You don't like it, you don't like it. If you're going to be sexually active with someone then you need to communicate your needs, wants, concerns, etc with them. I honestly used to feel the same way. I was always concerned with receiving oral sex so I never requested it and tried my hardest to avoid it when having sex. I didn't like my body or being naked so I'd have sex with my shirt on or something.

placed it this type, in case you nevertheless have your hymen, then you actually're a virgin. some human beings shaggy dog tale about dropping their lip virginity aka a first kiss, etc, yet your virginity status is many times in accordance with in case you've had sexual sex or not.

Your weird, I'm glad I'm not your husband, I would probably either dump your a** or shoot myself.