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How to abvoid the attraction to a girl ?

I am a 15 year old boy . I have recently completed my 10th std. Now i am in 11 science. and i have been attracted a girl who is my classmate for 2 years. She just avoids to talk with me.yet i am attracted to her.she is not a tall girl.she is shorter than an average 15 yearold girl. yet i find her attractive. others don't find her attractive.. but i do find her attractive. On the other side, I am not attractive at all. I am ok in looks. I am a bit fat. I am clever. and She is also clever. we both got more than 95% of marks in the main subjects in the 10th std. but i got 1 marks more than her. now because of my attraction towards her, i can't concentrate on my studies. i know my studies are more important than attraction to her, yet i daydream her . i always think about her . i also think about her while studying too. so am worried about my studies . and i want to know how i can avoid the attraction to her.

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  • 10 years ago
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    hey I'm 17. I am basically going through the same thing now, but I am doing my A2 exams... Basically I realized that she liked someone more than me, and I have been convincing myself that its just infatuation with this girl, and also the guy she likes is my best friend soooooooooooo, i don't want to hurt him. Basically I just have to push through, I know I don't have a chance with this girl, by the sounds of it you've got a better chance than me. If shes only recently been avoiding talking to you, you should probably just give her space, you never know what she could be going through. But if shes always tried to avoid you, try an build on that to help you get over her. Sorry I'm not as much help as you'd probably like, I wish someone could help me out too. good luck on your studies :)

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