Guy problems. Which guy should I chose?

it sounds to me like you've already answered your own question:)

you know guy number one is going to be the best for you. But you have to do what makes you happy. nobody on here is gonna know everything about you and the two guys. Which one suits you best? are you looking for a forever? or just a trial run relationship. people can change, but they cant read your mind. IF something guy number 2 does upsets you, tell him. He might surprise you and make the effort to fix it for you. Or he could turn out to be a jerk and hurt you, but more or less what i'm saying is what do you have to lose? you cant go into the relationship thinking he's going to hurt you...you just need to be positive until he gives you a reason to not believe in him. Not to be a sour puss, but everyone is going to have their heart broken in their lifetime. It's a natural thing to experience. I think whichever one you want to be with, you should go for. No matter which one it be, Of course everyone is going to say one, but i'm a risk taker. And i've learned first hand before you can make anyone else in this world happy, you have to make yourself happy. I hope this helps. and good luck girl :)

Go with your heart. You clearly like guy number two, and im sure that you would be more happier with him than you would with guy number one. Yes everybody knows a decent guy, who respects you and treats you right, but who isn't attracted to the 'bad boy' who flirts and teases. Im sure he's only like that because he's currently single, and if he is a deep guy as you say he is, im sure he wouldn't treat you as bad as you think he is. And because you don't want to get hurt in a relationship is not a reason not to be in one. In every relationship, good and bad, you get hurt either way, but its finding the ones that its worth getting hurt for, is the one you really want to be with.

So definitely guy number 2 :)

Neither, you can't choose because neither is right for you, if you do end up with one you will probably spend the whole time wandering if it would have been better with the other and wreck a perfectly good relationship and hurt an innocent man who did nothing but catch your eye. Wait for a guy that is so wonderful and amazing that you can't think of anyone else.

Sometimes we already know the answer. Quality guys don't come around often, 1 gives you what you need, 2 gives you what you want. Look at their history, the choices is obvious but the paradox that women face is trying to choose between their wants and needs. 1 gives you what you need and 2 gives you what you want. We live without wants everyday but we can survive without our needs being fulfilled.

All relationships are temporary ranging from one night stands to a long lasting relationships that can endure for fifty years or more...either way, their all just temporary flings of this life.

When you open your heart to someone you leave it open for them to see everything, and if that be so, then make sure that your significant other can see that you are just a temporary possession as well. Asa lamu alaykum.

This is what I see:

Guy #1: He won't ever dump you, you feel more secure with him but he's not the greatest. The reason for this is because he's shy. But you have slight feelings for him...

Guy #2: You actually like. But you feel you'll get hurt, so you don't see it long term.

In my opinion, I pick guy #2, because you don't want to hurt the first guy. You barely like him, you just want to feel secure with that guy. Guy #2, you actually like but take the risk because you don't want to play with the first guys feelings, eventually you'll be dumping him.

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Guy number one sounds better to me,but as you said you know guy number two is the one you want to be with more. guy number one =safety,trust,reliability guy number two= understanding, somewhat geunine and as you said unknown future

one

uno for sure