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International adoption process?
((Sorry this is kind of long))
Adopting internationally is something I've been thinking about for a while. I'm only sixteen, so I won't be adopting any time soon, but I've pretty much already decided I don't want to actually go through a pregnancy (I have a pathological fear of vomiting and pain terrifies me, not to mention that I like my stomach where it is), and I love kids (I am a camp counsellor during the summer and I teach canskate) and I like the idea of adoption; giving a child who was given up by their parents a chance for a better life. I think I would like to adopt from Russia or the Ukraine, because I have two very close friends who are adopted from there (one was adopted from Russia at 18 months, the other from Ukraine at 6 months)
That brings me to my actual questions: I am a Canadian Citizen living in Canada, but I plan to move to California or Arizona in the future. If I lived in the states, would I have to adopt through a Canadian Adoption Agency? And if I still lived in Canada, what would be the general process? I've read about dossiers and stuff, but I don't really understand any of that. Can someone possibly give me a link to a Canadian International Adoption Agency?
Also, how much does international adoption cost? I know that for both the Ukraine and Russia, you have to travel to the country for a set amount of time. I also know that you need to bring clothing and shoes and toys for the child, as well as some medications and stuff. But what are the other costs involved in international adoption?
Thank you so much!
If I think of more questions I will post them :)
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- ♥Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
If you are only a Canadian citizen and living in Canada, then you will most likely need to adopt through a Canadian adoption agency.
BUT if you are moving to America and plan on becoming a permanent resident then some agencies will allow you to adopt... only if you're a permanent resident of the US!
Although, a lot of agencies will require you to have US citizenship before adopting in the US.
If you are planning on moving to the USA, then I suggest you look up American agencies and search their website to see about adoption requirements.
- aloha.girl59Lv 71 decade ago
As a Canadian resident, you adopt through a Canadian agency. Same for the U.S.
Not wanting to be pregnant because it will push your body out of shape or cause pain is not a good enough reason to not want to be pregnant. Another woman shouldn't have to lose her child in order for you to become a parent.
If you plan to adopt internationally, why not just move to that country (Ukraine, for example)? Do you speak the language? Do you practice their customs and religion? Are you well-versed in the culture? Do you look Ukrainian? If not, why would you want to adopt from there? A child who has been orphaned (and very few of the children available for adoption are truly orphans -- most of them have either been taken by black market baby sellers or given up by their parents because they were told that they can't properly raise their own children) has already lost everything he has ever known. Why would you remove him from everything that is familiar to him just so YOU can have a child? That's very selfish.
There are tens of thousands of children in both Canada and the U.S. foster care systems who need homes and loving families. Why not adopt one (or more) of them? The cost is very minimal and most of it is reimbursed to you by the government. International adoptions cost $30,000+.
Source(s): Adoptive parent -- (U.S.) foster care - ?Lv 44 years ago
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- CPLv 41 decade ago
Keep in mind that in 10+ years when you would be eligible to adopt (most agencies and countries have age requirements), the entire process could be vastly different from what it is now.
Your best bet would be to contact a local agency and ask the questions directly to them.
- Anonymous7 years ago
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- ?Lv 51 decade ago
You know what'd be much much MUCH kinder? If you moved to Russia or the Ukraine and learned their language and life instead.
International Adoption, Fraud, and "Orphans" @ http://www.momlogic.com/2010/07/international_adop...
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Western parents who adopt from the developing world often believe they're in the midst of a double blessing: expanding their families by bringing home deeply wanted children and at the same time offering those children - orphans! - a happier, better life than they ever could have led in their own impoverished countries. There's nothing wrong with this belief - these parents' hearts are in the right place - but a recent article suggests that in many cases, the facts of international adoption aren't what they seem.
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Child trafficking disguised as adoption @ http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=546...
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__Children not commodities of international trade__
Of all the ways children are trafficked, however, one of the most undetected remains through international adoption, which has been on the rise for years, from 6,472 in 1992 to 22,728 in 2005 in the U.S. alone.
While parents around the globe are presented with opportunities to rescue orphans from impoverished backgrounds, many adoptions are inadvertently masking and perpetuating the dark world of child trafficking. Prospective parents must beware that just because visas are issued doesn't mean the child is not a victim of the adoptive market. Child trafficking is not just a sexual and labor trade – it's pro-adoption, too!
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See also:
Re-evaluating Adoption: Validating the Local @ http://dissidentvoice.org/2008/02/re-evaluating-ad...
The Baby Trade @ http://www.againstchildtrafficking.org/2010/12/the...
Child Laundering as Exploitation: Applying AntiTrafficking Norms to Intercountry Adoption Under the Coming Hague Regime @ http://works.bepress.com/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?artic...
http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=+site:www.adoptio...
It's entirely possible to help someone parent without snatching their child away from them: Each One Help One @ http://www.values.com/your-inspirational-stories/1...
My aparents have had to watch as their kid goes through all of the agony and trauma that comes with being adopted. They have had absolutely no help in dealing with any of this - as all good parents do, they winged it. It's testament to their brilliance that I'm even remotely sane (hush you lot at the back! :p) and a functioning member of society.
Adoption screws kids up. It's not a fact that the adoption mongers like seeing said in public, but it's true. Not every kid, obviously - some on here are happy to've been adopted, but a surprisingly high percentage of us grow up deeply screwed up.
I was abandoned to adoption at seven months old. I honestly and truly wish that I'd been aborted instead of abandoned to adoption, so please be prepared for the fact that any kid you adopt could grow up to be as screwed up as me (I'm almost 40, so legally "grown up" in pretty much everywhere).
Actually, if you adopt, the kid still won't be your own. You need to be able to deal with the fact that being a parent to an adoptee is NOT the same as being a parent to your own child. It will not elicit the same feelings in you, and your gut reactions will be off because there is no genetic similarity to recognise. Yes, you'll learn it all in time, and if you're a good a'rent, you won't even take out your frustration at the kid not being your own child on the child you adopt instead.
I suggest you read the links and blurb mentioned in the Best Answer (as chosen by voters) @ http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201... and then read back through a few months worth of resolved questions here in Y!A adoption.
Comprehend that lot, and you'll be about ready to adopt. :)
Source(s): Personally, I'd rather've been aborted - at least then the lifetime of agony would've been over in minutes/hours/days, instead of the decades that I've been suffering for now. Abandoned early 1973. Reunited late 2009.