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How do I fix my perdicament?

Right now I am dating a woman who I met about 2 months ago.

We have been out together alot, and I may have come off as too accommodating the first time because I find myself dishing out alot of money every time we are together.

She wasn't like this before, and while I bought her a few drinks at a club one time she took care of the rest. But the next few times I wanted to treat her, bought her movie tickets, food, drinks everything. She seems to be used to this now, and dosent even bring her wallet around. I am strapped for cash, and while I want to hang out and treat this girl my fiances are taking a beating. She also has no car or way of getting to me, so its me going out of my way to get to her every time,driving 30 minutes to her place.

I should also mention she is 30, while I am 20. It almost feels as if shes taking advantage of me sometimes.

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  • Dave
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    Try a dictionary. Look up predicament. Then drop that girl and find a 30 y/o divorced gal with loads of her ex-husband's loot.

  • 10 years ago

    yea, drop her. she is taking advantage of you. You're 20...how does she expect for you to pay for EVERYTHING. She's a loser because I wouldn't even feel right having you pay for everything. Talk to her about how you feel and if she even thinks about coping an attitude, drop her. Find someone who isn't a complete jerk.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It does sound like she is taking advantage of you. I would be worried if i were you.

  • 10 years ago

    Google 'cougar'.

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  • 10 years ago

    predicament*

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