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Derek S
Derek S asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 10 years ago

What should I do with this friend?

I met a coworker at a training event. I kinda liked him. We talked and laughed together, but nothing happened. I hadn't heard from him in a year...until....I saw him on line and he was like "wanna come over?"

When his birthday rolled around, and everyone on Facebook was wishing him Happy Birthday, I decided to call him. Got his voicemail and left a simple "hope you have a great birthday" message.

I just don't every HEAR from him. Should I take that as a sign to stop wasting my time even being friends with him. I don't want to be mean, but I also don't want to go wasting my time calling him or even bothering him if he's not going to reply, etc.

Any thoughts from you awesome Yahoo users?

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  • ?
    10 years ago
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    I think the best thing is to drop it down, don't contact him anymore.

    Well maybe he is busy, or has things to do so he can't call or reply. And maybe he is just wastin your time. So you wouldn't feel bad or anything just don't think of him anymore, don't tell him our friendship is over just don't try to call again. Maybe someday he will call and you would ge all of this straight. But otherwise just ignore him, and let the friendship flow on.

    But if his ignoring you much bothers you and you can't stand it, end it.

    Good luck, you're the one who is awesome!

  • Sweetie5454
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    No write on facebook the same thing he told you when you saw him "wanna come over?" I don't know if you said yes or no. He may not know how your feel, but at that time he like you, give him a chance, then you will know if he likes you . The call to happy birthday was just that, wishing him a happy birthday, why would he call you back. Good luck

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Yeah, I'd just let the friendship kinda...go maybe. If he wants to be friends, he'll contact you. :p

    Still, I can't stand it when people don't make any effort in a friendship!!

    Answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq2JH...

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