My parents have lied to me my whole life HELP?

- I feel for you sweetness, my mom lied to me about my dad, except i was in my 30's when i found out the truth. My father left on my 1st birthday, and never looked back. If Jared loves you, leave it at that, when you are 18 you can contact your dad. Jared sounds like a good dad. Fathers who say they dont want their chidlren, generally arent too nice when you go looking for them when your a minor.

- your mother was in a domestic violence situation with the twins, if you have contact with them, she will not go to jail. HOWEVER, you dont know their father, and there is a possibility he could be a danger to you if he finds out. I know you dont want to hear it, but speak to momma first.

- Just because you call the cops, doesnt mean they really do anything. My mom called 24 times for domestic abuse on my step father, and they only took him to jail 1 time, because the last time i filed a complaint as well, and i was a minor.

Stay with your current parents. They only told you this now because if you were 8, you would not take it the right way. So they needed to wait till you were a little more mature. What you need to do is act like nothing happened. And just continue your life how it is now. If you go to that dad. He might not accept you. JUST Stay with your current family. Ask your mom for a last name change. And maybe she will say yes.

Why might you name it a lie? Your mom and dad raised you, they adored you,they gave you the whole lot mom and dad must...and much more so that they did it with out you even being a organic offspring...which suggests much more love on account that they took you whilst your truly mom and dad did not desire to or could not take care of you. Does it lead them to much less of your mom and dad simply on account that your mom did not provide start to you? Your lifestyles is not a lie. More than most likely it's one thousand occasions larger than it might were in the event you have been raised via your truly mom and dad. Today, adoption is an excessively open and good understood & permitted factor, 21 years in the past, it wasn't...your mom and dad selected to do you the prefer of now not striking you by way of the turmoil of being taunted orteased because of being followed. Appreciate what your lifestyles has given you...

This sound like some Jerry Springer type stuff. Change your name when your married. Who cares what your friends say. i never heard of anyone getting sent to jail unless it's some child welfare stuff involved. Your mom got a best seller life story it appears. Contact them and ask them if they know anything about the jail situation. You've opened up pandora's box don't stop now. You never know,oneday you may save their life and vise versa

Damn that's a pretty screwed up family. Not to be mean or anything but that's a lot of bad things. Just ask your mom if you can talk to them. Its your right.

And when you do send them a message say

"Hey its (enter name here). I don't know if you remember me from a while back. When I was little I knew you two. I was the kid who (enter memorable moments if any).

We have the same mom."

And blah blah blah you can take it from there.

Good luck

To be honest I don't think any random person on the Internet will be able to answer that.

Sadly I agree with cat. To much to take in.

I don't get the question