GUYS GO TOO FAST IN DATING?? I DONT GET IT??!!!!!?

They're not interested in giving their heart or winning your heart. They want to move fast so they can get to the part where you consent to have sex with them. By making it official that you're dating, they think you will be willing.

Well, it isn`t only guys who go `too fast` though I do think they are the worst.

People can get excited when they meet someone new who seems to like them.

This is the phase when they most want and desire you. It`s no different than getting a new toy - like a new camera or something - for a while you are delighted and can`t put it down, and go out using it all over the place.

But you are right: it can take months, even years to get to know someome properly. Which is why people fall in love, get married, have kids are are divorced 4 years later.

Girl, I wish I had your problem right now. I have a guy I want to be official with, and he's just not getting it!

I completely agree with you about needing to take time to get to know someone though. It seems like a lot of people want to be with someone just so they won't be alone, or because it makes them feel special to have a significant other. You are doing the right thing, though. You want to make sure you are compatible with this person and actually like spending time with them in the long run. So keep strong and keep doing what you're doing! Good luck!

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Well u don't have to go all third base but guys like having someone they can depend on whenever for whatever and if a guy really likes you he'd want to be official faster nawt inless u were friends before then he's scared of ruining tht

The problem is not that you don't get it....its that he is not getting it. So give it to him or get another guy. He ain't going to wait forever.

Guys figure that is the fastest way to get you out of your panties.

He probably wants them boobies. In my opinion, guys that move that fast are either insecure or they want sex, and if your his "girlfriend" you might be "required" to have sex with him or something. I dunno for sure, but if he's moving that fast he might be clingy. Watch out!

i dont know... guys just want a girl to call his own, have his own property.