why do guys stare at me when i walk pass them?

This is a question better asked to the guys in question that stare at you when you walk past them because we cannot read their minds. We can only provide an opinionated answer, which holds no basis in fact.

Okay,

A self-confident person expects to be stared at because of his own confidence that he knows what he is doing and knows where he is going.

Most people don't know what they are doing or where they are headed which is why they stare at people that do.

The attitude you need to adopt is that 99% of people you meet are not worth the time of day...and that you should focus your energy and attention on building your education, sports, and career so that you will be highly desirable when you are ready to date.

Note: There are a few rules I didn't learn of till about the age of 25.

1. You do not approach another guy if he is taller..you wait for him to approach you.

2. You do not approach another guy if he is more attractive, you wait for him to decide.

When someone finally said look in the mirror you are a tall very attractive guy...it finally clicked that I once saw a very attractive gay man in the bar that everyone stared at and no one approached to say hi. I considered him far more attractive then me..and I too lost the courage to say hi and only starred.

When it was explained to me I had to have the courage to make the first approach. I knew that most of the time I would be rebuffed, however, making no approaches meant no buffing if you know what I mean.

Philip Maise

Pahoa Hawaii

There are some areas with a higher concentration of gay people, which would explain why so many guys are looking at you like that.

I remember once a gay guy I know called me a hunk... and I took it as a compliment because even though I'm not gay, I believe that gay men and straight women have something in common: they both may be attracted to the same dude.

And for me that means that I must really be a hunk... in their eyes at least. Cause I think I'm fat and average looking.

Maybe you're just paranoid.. That's kinda what it sounds like. You're gonna notice guys staring at you if you're looking for guys staring.

Its not there fault you hot :P Maybe they're just jealous or checking to see what there girlfriends are looking at.

they probably are gay and too shy to say hi to you first. why get mad that you have to say hi first anyways? at least your making friends.

its likely that:

1. your extremely attractive

2. they like your hat

3. you look weird

4. you look suspicious in that hat

You must be pretty attractive.

Is your fly open?