Unusual question about future?

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Hi, I'm 15 and I'm from Slovakia.

I don't really know where to start. I guess I'll start with that I love America and especially New York. I been watching the TV Show Friends for quite some time now and that's how I really imagine my life. Living in an apartment with friends, having relationships (Rachel and Ross) and having a good career. I however can't see myself moving from Slovakia to New York, I don't even know what I want to do in my future life. It's just that everyday, and yes I mean every day I think about my future, how I want to move out from Slovakia and go to York, have a successful career and girlfriend. You may think I'm a lonely guy, but that's not a problem I had few really cool girlfriends but then I realised I think I'm way too young for such relationships. I love playing basketball, I play everyday with goal to reach it once to NBA even though I'm sure it will never happen yet I don't quit. I really need some help, I don't know what to do my future just bothers me so MUCH. See, I just wanna walk in Times Square and stuff with my gf and have fun, go to some office work, or be an professional basketball player that's two jobs I can see doing in future. 

I just don't know what to do, my future bothers me so much. I guess I'm afraid of it? I just don't know where to start to be sucessfull in my life and probably move to America later on. It's so hard for me. Yes, I am 15 but many people told me I'm thinking as a 20 years old. It's just..I don't know what to do, I'm lost. I have really good friends (good number of them) so I'm not lonely, I'm not afraid of talking to girls, I'm cool. It's just that my future bothers me. I'd love some help, and oh. I just finished elementary school and in September I'll be going to Business Academy - I have really no idea how to translate it to English, it's a 4 year school you got economy and all that there. I hope you get what I mean.

I would appreciate ANY help really. I'd also love to talk with someone who'd be able to listen to me and probably give me some advices on how to move on, not just over Yahoo Answers. 

-THANKS- in advance, I really hope to see someone who feels me and probably has an advice.

Evergreen · Accepted Answer

I can see how concerned you are in the future. I suggest you make right choices and decisions at this present time. The effects may not be noticeable this time but in the future, you'll see the big difference. In doing major decisions, you should GET SOME HELP. Don't do it all by yourself. Get suggestions from others and it would be your choice and your agency if you want to follow that advice.

In short, make the right choices that will affect your future in a positive way. Don't be afraid! As long as you're in the good path, you won't trip over or what. 

Also, if this kind of anxiety is bothering you ceaselessly, get some medical counselling. (If you're a Christian, I suggest you do counseling with God.)

Anonymous · Answer

You must stop making and ideal for yourself from a television show, because if you do not reach your ideal you will make yourself even more unhappy.  You must realise that it is just a dream, and now it is time to wake up to reality.

Make the most of the real life that you have now, since that is the best that can happen to you:

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Happy

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Anonymous · Answer

THANKS BROTHER

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