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What is he trying to do??? :S?
There is a man who is my father's friend. He is married but I love him very much.
I can't understand what exactly he feels for me because when we are alone he acts so close to me. We hug and laugh but when we are together with our families he keeps his distance.
What is he trying to do?
By the way I am 18 and he is 36. We get along really well and we have known each other for a long time. He says he likes me very much, he is so kind to me but if only we are alone.
When we are with my father he acts as if he wasn't the one that hugged me. He is still very nice though.
And I know that he can't be thinking something bad. I trust him more that myself.
3 Answers
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
First, to answer your question, he definitely likes you...more than a friend. He probably is feeling you out to have an affair with him. When you're alone, he's giving you signals that he wants you. He treats you differently in front of other people because he does not want your family to catch on for several reasons: 1. you're his friends daughter, 2. he's MARRIED, 3. you're only 18, and 4. your dad would probably kick his butt on all accounts.
You didn't ask for advice, but I'm gunna throw it out there for your sake. RUN. Don't mess around with a married guy. It never ends well for you, the other woman. He has made a commitment to his wife. You're only going to be disappointed in the end when something happens between you two and he never leaves his wife. Or, even worse, he does leave his wife, and he cheats on you down the road.
You're 18 and I'm sure you're beautiful! There are so many wonderful single men out there that you'll have so much fun dating. Don't close yourself off by getting involved with this guy. I know it's so hard because you're already falling for him, but try to pull yourself away from this situation. I have never seen it end well.
Source(s): Experience - I've been through this situation with 2 close friends and, in the end, they were the ones who were hurt. - lorenbearLv 610 years ago
He has physical wants that include you, but feels guilty because of the relationship he has with your father and your age. And some fear because of his feelings that he might be found out.
- 10 years ago
what is wrong with u???? he is 18 years older than u and hes married!!!!!!!!!! u should be very ashamed of urself.
