Why Did This Girl Stop Talking To Me? Please Help.?

I think you need to ask her this question directly. The problem is that you do not seem to know her all that well (and it's not clear that you have a lot of mutual friends who could help you figure this out). Maybe she has a habit of falling for guys too quickly and is second-guessing her behavior that night. Maybe she has a complicated situation with an ex or another guy. Maybe she loses interest when guys seem interested in her and you came on too strong that night. Maybe she just enjoys playing with guy's hearts. Anything is possible, but the point is that you really don't have enough information to make an educated guess.

I would recommend messaging her on Facebook with something like the following: "I had a great time the other night and would really like to see you again. Let me know if you want to do something this Saturday. But I understand if you're not interested - just let me know." Sounds blunt and you might get rejected, but it's a pretty irreproachable course of action - you're a gentleman for asking her out on a proper date, but will also win points for telling her that it's OK if she says no - and it will almost certainly get you the answers you deserve.

One tip: try to make her commit to plans. If she says that she's interested in seeing you again but never seems to make the time (or if she cancels plans at the last minute), then she's playing games with you. The reasons why she's playing games aren't important. The fact that she's playing games means that She's Just Not That Into You and you need to move on before she hurts you again. Good luck!

I'm not sure if the other girls is the issue. It sounds like you were moving really fast.

"I'd like to talk to her about some things in person next time we have the opportunity but that they weren't bad."

That sounds like you're ready to have "The Talk" or reveal some huge secret which can be a little fast for a first date

Or it might have nothing at all to do with you what-so-ever.

Maybe her ex boyfriend came back into her life or she decided she likes being single. No matter what's going on, the reality is that she's not writing back and that is a big sign to move on to something better. Don't waste your time worrying about what you may or may not have done. Spend your energy finding someone else to spend your time with.

good luck

annabelle

It's only been a few days, relax. Please pay attention to this. A woman can love absolutely everything about you but if you become the guy who comes on too strong too soon, then everything will fall apart. You were making it seem like hanging out with her was the best night of your life. I know you were just being nice and she probably thought it was nice too but I guarantee that in the back of her mind she was thinking "This guy seems a little needy, he likes me too much". Women love attention when in relationships but before the relationship, too much attention will creep them out.

Also consider that women have issues beyond men's understanding. SOme have emotional baggage. Maybe she is scared of getting hurt. Who knows? I do think you need to relax a little and keep your feelings in check.

Seriously think about the text you sent her. You hung out with her one time. And just minutes after dropping her off, you are telling her how great she is and you need to talk to her in person. She had to of taken that as "ok, this guy is going to ask me to be his girlfriend so soon, I need some space". Tough to come back from that. I'm not faulting you, I have done that before, all guys have. SOme women are really awesome and make guys try too hard. You should be distant for a few days and hope she comes to you

Give it a bit of time maybe she has run out of credit LOL or maybe she is going through some problems where she does not feel like contacting you or talking to anyone, You barely know her yet. I know it may sound far fetched have you tried contacting her on facebook. She likes you otherwise she wouldn't have told you to book the tickets and kiss you twice. She wouldn't even go to your house. She clearly wants to be with you, it has only been a few days try not to panic. Ask her cousin if she has heard from her also.

its either 1 of 2 things u may have seemed too pushy right after warming up 2 1 another u push her to having to make a direct decision with the tickets and that could have made her feel uncomfortable and turned off but of course she still wanted to get home hince the being nice and give u a one last kiss the text me says it all,, y not call me? bcuz texting is easier to avoid. then again it couldve been the quote all the other gurls i been with thts a total turn off.. it makes u sound used worn and used up.. lol theres plenty of fish n the sea as they say,, i wouldnt worry about it.

You seem a but too strong. I think she feels like your pushing her a bit into a relationship by saying you wanted to talk about things in person. You just want to hang there and if she really likes you she'll come back around. Don't text you too much until she recieves your message. How long was from when you heard from her. Days, months? It would change everything. But listen to what I am saying.

you put inthe words: a lot of the previous girls I had been with.

that makes you see like a dog

You mentioned "a lot" of other girls.

Good luck!

Your text was allllll wrong