I'm so broken that I don't know how to fix my life? Please help me?

A previous answer follows, modified for you: One suggestion is to write a letter, expressing how it has affected your life, and what you would like to see happen about it now, then either post it, unaddressed, or have a ceremony, and burn it safely, in a metal container, and flush the ashes down the toilet, symbolically ending the matter. Hypnosis is merely a heightened state of suggestibility, in which communication with your subconscious mind is facilitated. 85% of people are suggestible, to some degree, so you could preferably seek professional hypnotherapy. If not an option, hypnosisdownloads has: escape emotional abuse. If the above proves insufficient, I suggest that you seek psychotherapy, and a course of EMDR therapy, (* http://your-mental-health.weebly.com/q.html ) would probably reduce the negative emotions associated with your memories of emotional abuse to more acceptable levels - the EMDR to reduce the negative, combined with the other techniques shown may be all you need, enabling you to avoid psychotherapy (open ended; can take years, cost a small fortune, and achieve little, depending on the therapist, and client). Try the relaxation methods at http://www.drcoxconsulting.com/managing-%E2%80%A6 or http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/mindbody%E2%80%A6

or www.wikihow.com/Meditate and/or Tai Chi, Qi Gong, or yoga. Also page L at this site*, where there are several to choose from.

Some people are still dismissive of them, but scientific testing has demonstrated conclusively that they increase activity in the left prefrontal cortex, when practised regularly, and will enable you to find a way of being; awareness, without suffering, when you need it, and is a valuable tool for helping you through the worst parts of life. Give the acupressure EFT a good tryout, to see if it helps you. It is free via the searchbar at ** www.mercola.com "EFT" & "EFT therapists", or www.tapping.com (13 free videos) or, if still available, the free video for PTSD at www.emofree.com Professional EFT is always preferable. - There is a version for use in public places**, (you could claim to have a headache, as you employ the acupressure massage/tapping your temples, but you would then be restricted to subvocalising: saying it to yourself in your mind: "Even though I suffer the aftereffects of emotional abuse, I deeply and completely accept myself." At the end of therapy, discuss the importance of (sincere) forgiveness; to not do so is to hold onto the hurt, but you may not be ready for this step for some time.

Read: Healing the Scars of Emotional Abuse by Ann McMurray and Gregory Jantz, Ph.D., & Choosing Forgiveness: Your Journey to Freedom by Nancy Leigh DeMoss, & The Twelve Steps of Forgiveness by Paul Ferrini and Pia Mackenzie, & Forgiveness: How to Make Peace With Your Past and Get on With Your Life by Sidney B. Simon and Suzanne Simon, & "Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve” by Lewis B. Smedes. Get through your fear of forgiveness, from your bookstore, or amazon.com. Google: "social workers; (your location)" and contact one.

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You have raised many questions for your query, I will reply this one Can Love repair what Life has damaged? Yes supplied it is actual, unconditional love....... the minute hypocrisy, falseness enters into courting it spoils the whole thing, the individual whose spirits had been raise on account that he proposal he was once being adored & cared for truthfully disintegrates whilst he realizes how hypocrite the opposite individual is and the way false his/her love was once . If you desire an instance of such actual love learn the guide " les miserables " and exceptionally the passage in which jean vallejan meets the priest who feeds him , offers him safe haven whilst no person is in a position to take action, whilst the entire international is hell bent on labeling him as crook , an animal this priest treats him the way in which a individual will have to be handled and despite that jean vallejan robs this very priest, however this priest forgives all his sins and that is whilst a truly difference occurs in jean vallejan . Such love , perspective as proven by means of that priest regularly has vigor to fix what lifestyles has damaged .

I would visit Social Services to see what they can do to help the home situation. For your emotional well being I would suggest a psychological professional to help you with your stress and how you can manage through each day without taking the abuse.

that is terrible, im so sorry, but no one should have to go through that.but honestly and im being serious, you should walk out of there alone with all your things, i mean i know that means you are leaving your family but honestly what you're going through do they feel like family?

i am new worker plz help me