BF moved on and did this.. What should I do?

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Okay so my ex and I dated for about 18 months and broke up 2 weeks ago. I told him I needed time and eventually yesterday I told him I can't be friends right now. Two hours later he changes his fb profile picture to him with this girl he's be flirting with on facebook for about 2 weeks (since we broke up). She comments that its a bad picture and he says we need another one together. 

This bothers me for two reasons.
-I feel like we just broke up two weeks ago, and we dated for over a year and a half. Shouldn't he take more time to move on, or at least not flaunt it when we he knows I haven't moved on?
-He had me in his picture once.. after I begged him. And he already has one with a new girl and says they need another. Idk if they're even dating..


What should I do? I feel like I should talk to him about it.. even if you don't think I should, what would I say if I did? It just really hurts and I thought my feelings mattered at least a little bit.

Phoenix21 · Answer

Most guys when they feel hurt they feel the need to lash back, his changing his profile picture so quickly was just something to hurt you. Men knows how to press a women's buttons. Delete him as a friend or you will be staring at a series of actions to come that WILL hurt you.

What will talking help? If he is in a "i don't care" mode, it wont matter what you say, he will just tell you that you are no longer dating & that you are being way to sensitive. Best is to protect yourself & stay away from him whiles he is being destructive

Tatum J · Answer

People get over things differently. 
My advice would be to talk about it with him. He could actually be upset about the break up, and he's trying to make you jealous. He might be sad about the break up, and this might be his way of moving on. But you won't know what is going on if you don't talk to him. 
Tell him that this is bothering you, and that you'd like for him to take it down, so it gives you time to move on gradually. 
Good Luck!

LL · Answer

Write bad comments about the girl under the photo. (Use another facebook account, an anonymous one with a fake nickname and no picture. That's what I do!)

notme · Answer

Guys deal with hurt feelings by hooking up with other chicks,girls we need ice cream,shopping,new hairstyle and a new facebook pic of you looking hotter and prettier than the chick he is hooking up with.

Sherril · Answer

He is just making you jealous. Stay calm and don't over react. Comment on the photo -- " Nice click ;) " and see his reaction first. For further help, text me any time at sunshine.rhythm@yahoo.com Stay Happy girl.

Soulyluv · Answer

Please do yourself a favor and delete him from your fb page. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings otherwise he wouldn't be playing vindictive games . If I were you I wouldn't say a word to him about that pic or the young ladies comments. That's what he wants you to do. Don't give in to his childish games. Delete him and never let him see you sweat.

? · Answer

he sounds like an ****. if i were you i would just cut him out of your life, if you had to work that hard for this guy and wants to do this to you so soon, and seems to have been more willing with this woman after such a short time then he does not deserve you

justadream · Answer

Wait for his karma.

Anonymous · Answer

move on girl... he dont deserve you...

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