How can you claim to love someone but a the same time you act like you want to choke them,is that?

Ask my husband, havent spoke to him for 2 weeks after he insulted me when being totally drunk and he doesnt even know it. Of course I love him but I still want to choke him!!

I have a lot of experience in this.

I met this guy at my school and from the first day I met him I hated him to bits all I could think about is how much I want him hurt or dead. I didn't even know the guy, but I stopped hating him and then when we got to know each other I found out I loved him all along. It's weird, it probably because people feel attracted to one another but they're in denial.

Hope this helps.

XOXO

Love is all about testing each other and give and take no relationship in a marriage isn't perfect we all go through teething problems no matter how long you have known each other. sometimes we push each other to the limit and somebody has to back off and be the loser. but deep down inside all of us we sometimes do not know when to quit and live peacefully and happily.