What should I do in this situation?

Yes love, I am hitting the big 36! And, I will admit at this age it is a bit technical. First, I get the feeling he has kids. If he does and is not looking for wife material, run for the woods! If he has no kids this does not make things easier. Lets, just say he has time to think but this time is only a few seconds for men are on a time clock to produce children as well as women.

Your gut is telling you correct love, yes he is not trustworthy. The way you guys connected does not speak of longevity. So I would look at this as a temporary situation. Clearly, you are setting yourself up for a painful breakup so do yourself a favor and breakup. I think you are looking for a man who wants more out of a relationship. This dude is not on that level. So just repeat that to yourself despite the constant proclamations of love he gives regularly. Lastly, when you find a trustworthy man you will have to loose the spying, reading e-mail's etc. Your current relationship is not the model that you want to function under when you have acquired a new man. This future wonderful man will be destroyed to know that you are willing to spy on him so don't do it. Key, with men if you trust them they will trust you. If you need to know anything secret about a good man... a truthful man will show you anything you would like to see like his e-mail, phone, etc. So I hope these things help.

Good Luck

Stay strong

Peace

I always thought once a cheat, always a cheat. He will always do that. He will say you knew how I was when you found me. He has found his angle, that is how he will pick up on girls, it work once, it will work twice. You could say your e-mail was open or I thought it was mine e-mail, better yet don't tell him, that information is good for later use. You can say I ran into my friend and she told me what you said about my friends, friend, (don't forget to get that girls name or say you forget), then tell him. He won't know who it is and you can say that's not important and stick to the subject. I wouldn't say that girl, because he might say describe her, if he still wants to now that girls name say your friend doesn't want to get involved. You should leave him. He is ready to leave, once he can switch over to the next girlfriend. He most likely don't want to get hurt and alone. You should leave before he leaves you, that way he will be hurt and lonely, make him suffer, its a good thing you were on your toes keep up the good work, no guy desire to be trusted, unless they earn it. Your entitle to go through his e-mail, what does he has to hide any way --0h another relationship? get rid of the bum.

The fact you went into his emails shouldn't even matter! He's doing the wrong thing, not you. You're supposed to be able to trust him, he shouldn't have anything to hide from you. I would just flat out tell him what you saw and tell him how you feel. What have you got to lose? If you can't trust him, than what is the relationship really worth?

Accept that polygyny is OK so it does not matter if he sees other girls so long as he is committed to you. Explain that you believe in polygyny.

http://bible.org/series/divorce-and-re-marriage-re...

http://bible.org/article/possibility-nonsexual-adu...

http://bible.org/article/morality-biblical-polygyn...

Maybe "accidentally" have a copy of this book somewhere on a table where he happens to look and happen to mention you were reading it

It is anti-divorce (with reasonable exceptions) so he should get the message don't divorce or dump his girlfriend if he marries her.

Give me a call some time ! after the three of you come to terms ! have a great day ! and i will be waiting untill then ,, :)

I hope he leaves you. You went through his emails without his permission; you deserve to be left.

hes using u, please dumb him dont tell him any reasons, ur going to get more hurt if u keep being with him n when he cheats on u

You just dump him girl.

Of course he's using you.