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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 10 years ago

What would you do in this awkward situation ? lol?

So i'm 23 and i teach music to 8' grade, and ok I used to work as a model until i was 19.

But today i was filling out a mammogram paper and I had to write the size of the bra I use right?

The other teacher that we will call Derek, sexually harassed me I think haha... he looked over my shoulder and said:

D= "Oh great now i just need to know what noises you make in bed?"

Me= " what?"

D= " it was a joke, like as I fantasize about you....get it?"

Me= "Oh right"

IT WAS SO AWKWARD!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! IS IT NORMAL TO SAY SOMETHING LIKE THIS TO A PERSON? (he is 32 i think, and NO i am not attracted to him)

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  • 10 years ago
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    Wow derek is a major creep and no doubt has history of harrassing women he works with, what he said was say out of line and you should think very carefully about what your'e going to do because men like that can land you in hot water and ruin your reputation

    be very careful, try to get an idea in the staff room of what people think of him. If he's well liked by male and female staff...he's one of those crafty ones.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It was just a joke let it go. i think he knows it wasn't funny. If he tries to do something like that again just let him know that your not interested.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    That's pretty creepy. I'd tell someone about that cause it's not at all appropriate.

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