What is wrong with my answer to a gay person?

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Would including the omission have made it more acceptable?

I gave an answer to the question from Auhem117: "Politics: Do you think of me as a girl although I'm transgender?" I foolishly omitted that because I entertain the possibility people have spirits (souls, etc), transgender is automatically possible in my mind, and I do not understand why religious people who believe in human spirit/soul would question its possibility. 

I did note in my answer that I view her generally as how she was born, but accept wherever she goes from there. I also recalled long ago passing an extremely beautiful lesbian and I could not avoid thinking: "Oh no, not you."

I know many LGBT wouldn't like my answer to Auhem117 and/or my reaction to the beautiful lesbian, but I make no apology for anything but the omission.

If you do object to my reaction to the beautiful lesbian, why would you ever expect a straight male to react otherwise? Can you see it's bigotry in you that would, not in me? Do you actually think I could or would ignore the extreme beauty of a woman and not desire her just because she happened to be lesbian? Of course I would not expect her to respond to me nor be so ridiculous to try convincing her to "change."

I have great regret for my omission, but if it was the desire for a beautiful lesbian that got me trashed, I would like an apology for that PC insanity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You weren't wrong, gays and gay supports usually get too defensive over LGBs. There's nothing wrong with lusting over a homosexual.... 


And Ben, he's using the right pronouns.

who WAS #1? · Answer

Lighten up! Quit taking everything so seriously. I'm an old white straight guy and right now I would welcome anything into my bed. Girls just want to have fun, you know? Go answer political questions where life is more sane ;-) Well, sort of.....

EDIT: uh, by 'girls' I mean anyone of that persuasion. Humans can work around the anatomy ;-)

EDIT:  uh, by 'girls' I mean anyone of that persuasion.  Humans can work around the anatomy ;-)

Anonymous · Answer

i think of it ought to be because of the fact while civil rights have been commencing, the black community tried to distance itself as a strategies from the homosexuals as achieveable. they did not desire to be persecuted for 2 issues. They have been already being discriminated for being black, with the intention to be a black and gay might harm the total black conflict for equality. This distance they saved from the gay stream exchange into surpassed right down to their toddlers and it will probable get much less noticable as extra blacks and homosexuals are taken care of the two.

Meghan · Answer

There's actually nothing wrong with what you said to the lesbian... because I've said "Oh no, not you" to loads of straight women and said to them why are they straight.

Anonymous · Answer

I could see if you didn't respect someone as transgendered, by calling them by them by incorrect pronouns, it could be offensive.  But generally, I don't see anything wrong with that answer.

Anonymous · Answer

No. he's a boy.

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What is wrong with my answer to a gay person?

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