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i have lots of insecurities that prevent me from making friends please help?

I have a hard time making friends in the beginning because i put too much pressure on myself. When i talk to someone or try to i feel like i am coming off as sounding like an idiot and the people are just judging me in their own mind. What can i do to stop this?

I really have a hard time talking to buys that im attracted to because i feel that they think im ugly and a joke when im in their face smiliing and trying to talk. Since i have never had a bf i find myself liking any guy that fits my description of "my type"

ADVICE PLEASE??

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  • 10 years ago

    My advice would be to just be yourself. No one knows you more than you. Remain calm when approaching a guy you may like. You have to believe that you are beautiful from the inside and out. When making friends, try not to put any pressure on yourself at all. If a person wants to be your friend in return, they will respond positively, but if not, then they don't deserve your friendship to begin with.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    When you talk to either a boy you like or just try to make friends, just be yourself. Nothings better than that. Just yourself. And as long as you like yourself, who cares if others do, if someone wants to be your friend they should just accept you no matter what. It shouldn't matter what you look or sound like. Also as long as you like how you look, you should feel comfortable. Just keep your cool and be yourself, after time you'll find the right people.

    Hope it helps (:

    Have a rad day !

    -Alexandria.

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