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What do I do? I don't want to let her go :(?

Please help me, your help would be greatly appreciated. I know its a lot of information but please bare with me it's a very difficult thing for me to overcome.

Ok, so I have like this girl for a long time now. And we have become very close friends throughout this time that I've liked her. We text and chat on facebook all the time and I just recently about 3 weeks ago, took her to a theme park and it was amazing. But ever since then, it was'nt just a crush anymore. I knew I had loved her now, because she would be all I thought about, all I dream't about at night ect. But just 2 days ago, I had her over at my house and her bestfriend tagged along and so did my bestfriend, all at my house right. Now my bestfriends knows I fell in love with this girl, it just wasn't a secret to him anymore, he guessed because it was obvious to him. But while me her went to the store to pick up something, My friend was left at home with her bestfriend for a little bit, and out of the blue, her bestfriend asked my bestfriend if I liked the girl I like. So he was honest and said yes, he does a lot. So that was the end of the line right there, her bestfriend knows now. So now I have to tell this girl that I like so I did it like a man without any fear. But sadley she said she just doesn't have those type of feelings for me, but she also said I will always be one of her best friends and that I will never lose her. But it doesn't feel like my chances with her are over yet, so i'm going to keep being her good close friend but I dont know how I could ever get a second chance with her? Any thoughts about what I should do?

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  • 10 years ago
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    Like you said, keep her as a close friend, those harder to find than girlfriends, and worth more in the long run.

    As for a second chance, we just don't know. All you can do it wait. I don't advise you completely wait for her, just because she doesn't have the same feelings for you. If you want, keep her mind, but I suggest you don't let her stop you from anyone else. If someone else comes up, go for it. Don't put everything on hold just for this one girl who doesn't see you in the same way.

  • M&M
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    People are put in our lives for different reasons. Maybe you're just meant to stay friends or maybe something more than that. As long as she doesn't feel awkward and as long as you don't, I suggest to stay friends with her. If you care about her like you say you do, stick around and help her and be there for her when she needs you. Don't force her into anything and don't bring up the fact that you love her...I think that would be best. If she starts to have feeling for you, then it will be on her at that point. You've already let her know that you like her. She would know that, and if she had feelings for you she is going to have to be the one to speak up. God has a plan for you, and it may involve this girl, but it may not. But He will work it out for you if you let Him. I hope I helped! :)

  • 10 years ago

    stay good friends with her and over time just put in little comments here and there like oh you look nice to today ect. and maybe she will start to see you as more a bf instead of a bff

  • 10 years ago

    just ask her out on a date tell her to go on this one date and after that date if she doesnt want to go out any more she doesnt have to

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