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What do I do? I don't want to let her go :( HELP?
Please help me, your help would be greatly appreciated. I know its a lot of information but please bare with me it's a very difficult thing for me to overcome.
Ok, so I have like this girl for a long time now. And we have become very close friends throughout this time that I've liked her. We text and chat on facebook all the time and I just recently about 3 weeks ago, took her to a theme park and it was amazing. But ever since then, it was'nt just a crush anymore. I knew I had loved her now, because she would be all I thought about, all I dream't about at night ect. But just 2 days ago, I had her over at my house and her bestfriend tagged along and so did my bestfriend, all at my house right. Now my bestfriends knows I fell in love with this girl, it just wasn't a secret to him anymore, he guessed because it was obvious to him. But while me her went to the store to pick up something, My friend was left at home with her bestfriend for a little bit, and out of the blue, her bestfriend asked my bestfriend if I liked the girl I like. So he was honest and said yes, he does a lot. So that was the end of the line right there, her bestfriend knows now. So now I have to tell this girl that I like so I did it like a man without any fear. But sadley she said she just doesn't have those type of feelings for me, but she also said I will always be one of her best friends and that I will never lose her. But it doesn't feel like my chances with her are over yet, so i'm going to keep being her good close friend but I dont know how I could ever get a second chance with her? Any thoughts about what I should do?
4 Answers
- Anonymous10 years ago
Ouch,that hurt me throught the computer man.Im really sorry it turned out like that.Its really tough when you like a girl and one of your friends like her as well.I dont want to give you false hope just to get some YA points.In my opinion you got youre answer.She dosent feel the same way.Its a really,really crappy feeling.Like being stabbed in the stomach while all the blood leaves youre face.But that's life,and in my experience you can't change there mind.I think its really retarded for your friend to butt in if you felt this strongly about her.Ive been there.But don't lose confidence in yourself.There will be other girls in your life, and even though it may not seem like it you will find another girl who you will care about even more.Girls come and go but true friends are forever.IfI where you I would question this friendship with the guy.Dont be mad at the girl,she was just being honest.Be civil with her it will help you in the longrun.I hope everything works out for you man,I really do.
Source(s): Don't lose faith in yourself,friend - 10 years ago
I agree with Missy. The same thing happened with me. My best friend said he wanted to be more than friends & I told him I didn't want that. & then after some time he got a girlfriend & we didn't see or talk to each other much anymore. & that made me jealous & made me want him & it made me realize I loved him more than just a friend.& if I'm remembering right isn't that what happens in the movie Maid of Honor?? But, him & his girlfriend broke up & we finally got together & have been together for over a year now:) I think it will happen, just be patient. Maybe you could try what my boyfriend did... start talking to someone. It could work...
- MissyLv 410 years ago
Be patient. Just be yourself and be her best friend. Thank goodness she didnt say I don't want to know you anymore. You still hVe a chance but don't act or be desperate. She'll know and feel it and won't feel like friends anymore. Be there for her when she needs you. If she goes out with someone else, don't be afraid to lose her ok? Just be there as best friend. You'll end up having her like the film Maid Of Honour! You HAVE to watch it
- 10 years ago
You sound pretty young and it's most likely infatuation (rather than love) that you feel for this girl.. Just move on but keep her as a friend still... if she decides to go further with you she will.
There's lots of fish in the sea and you will most likely meet another girl you like better.
::edit:: I didn't see Missy's advice (above) before I posted my response. Her suggestion is excellent and you should do that.
Source(s): life