How do I get over this guy?

Find what lights your fire. Find what gives you that spark, that feeling of wonder, and makes you happy to be involved in this crazy situation we call a life... Modern love is complicated. Just ask David Bowie. (Ew, old)

Don't define yourself based on someone else.. you can't do that. If you do, then.. who are you? Where is your 'center'?

Time heals all wounds. The problem is, time may not pass as quickly as we would like. Just, trust me on this one. All you REALLY need is time... and a good friend, whose shoulder you can cry on.. helps. Don't be afraid to cry. It's not good for you in the short term... but WOW, believe me, it can help stop you from being a crazy, irresponsible, unpredictable crazy person in the long term, if you keep it bottled up....!

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Just forget about him. If he is gonna just run away and ignore your for somthing like that than do u really want him in ur life?

You need to eliminate him from your life. You will come to a point of pity, another in which you will think you want back, another in which you will hate him and in the end you will be able to not have any positive or negative feelings on him.

I had a similar experience, and because I think it will encourage you, I will tell it to you completely. I fell for a guy from my church on the 5th grade. I told him I was in love with him being very young, at least 11. So basically this guy liked me back when I had broken up with someone else and wanted to make that person jealous by going out with his best friend. So I chose this other person over him, also because a friend of mine wanted to be with this guy from church. I brake up with this other guy. After that I liked the kid from church back and he made me fall for him, and I fell for him so hard because he wasn't there to catch me when I did. He played with my heart for 3 months when I was 14 going on 15, and then decided to let me go, we weren't even a couple so it was even more horrible. And meanwhile my friend got jealous that I was with him cause she had broken up with him.

Basically, I got so sad, then I decide after 9 months that I'm over him, and I get attracted to a new kid in school. New kid breaks my heart by touching my *** for no reason. Then I get over new guy and all of a sudden church boy seems to like me again, since I got into reading on body language. By this point I'm turning 16 soon and am still crying over him. Its winter.

Summer arrives, I'm 16 already, and get drunk at a friend's party with this guy that I sort of liked taking care of me. He liked me alot and I had hurt him by ignoring him for a long time after having paying attention to him, but he was all over that and was still my friend. I got drunk to be able to forget about church boy. I get so drunk that I get a mild heatstroke, and I kissed the guy I liked. kissed him many times. No sex happened. I was crying and laughing at random. It was sort of embarrassing, but I'd never done it before 'nor did it after.

So this guy I liked leaves, I talk to him, he doesn't want a relationship with me. I don't ask him why, move on, keep hanging with him. When I ask him one day why, he tells me its because he's taking summer school. So we start having these encounters were we kiss. I tell him all my love stories, as I have done with you, but obviously more detailed. We become a couple after 1 week he finishes summer school. I start crying one day because I didn't want to go to church. He told me that it was ok if I didn't want to go, I didn't want to go because seeing church boy broke my heart. This guy basically repairs my heart from all damage. I got over church boy at the age of 16 almost going on 17. I had errased him from my fb, myspace, phone, msn, EVERYTHING! And I still get sort of a grudgy feeling, but before I wouldnt even say hi to him.

Here I am, madly in love with my new boyfriend, whom Ive been with a year. It took time to find the right one, alot of tosses and turns in love, but in the end it was totally worth it.

I hope I have inspired you, and I encourage you to outshine this experience, because you will have it worst. You seem like a beautiful innocent girl, so you must be very strong willed. Use the light inside of you and recognize your true potential. This boy is not better than you and no boy will ever be. When you find a boy who visualizes himself at your level, even if he has some self esteem issues, girl, that's the one.

Just get over it.