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i cant believe how much my babys changed me?

my babys 11wks old, before i found out i was preg i wasnt ready for babys, they were the last thing on my mind and yes he wasnt planned i even had an abortion booked twice but coudnt go through with it. I tried to ignore being preg lettin on it wasnt happening to me, it worked & i had the easyest pregnancy, a little drama durin labour but all in all couldnt complain.. now i just cant get enough of my baby and i now regret not enjoyn the pregnancy. it all went so quick, pregnancy & the time i stayed in hosp, ive suprised myself to admit - yes id do it all over again. kinda feel like ive missed out by not taking the time to take it all in. i might even be abit broody and ive never felt like that before! think im just worried incase i never get to experience it all again and if i feel like this i can only imagine how people feel that have been tryin for babys for a long time!

has any one else felt like this?

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  • 10 years ago
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    -Sounds like You didn't Know Yourself as well as you THOUGHT you Did, -huh ?? ;)

    Source(s): Reality.
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I got pregnant when i was 14 years old, from that moment i knew my life was going to change forever it did not matter if i liked it or not.

    Everybody at my school and a few friends judged me from that day on, it made me feel less and less happy about being pregnant and more upset about being it.

    My daughter was born 3 days ago at 30 weeks, seeing her in that little plastic box surrounded with tubes coming out of everywhere because she cannot feed or breath as well has made me realize how lucky and how grateful i should be that she is here in this world right now.

    She has changed me, now i have found a new thing to look forward to in life and all my plans for her now, getting married, going to collage, trust me, in time it will get better.

  • 10 years ago

    I havent had a baby, but i reli want one, im 20 lol. Not v good advice as i dont have the experience i suppose, but i really think u shudnt dwell on this. the fact is your baby is here now and you know how much you love him, thats all that counts. You never know you may have another baby, and get to enjoy that experience again. Im sure a lot of first time mothers especially dont enjoy pregnancy, i mean theres so much that changes, i would be freaked out about gaining weight and stuff. Now that your babys here, just enjoy him. dont worry about that stuff

    :)

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    congrats! don't worry, if you didnt have a problem getting pregnant the first time im sure you'll get the chance to enjoy your next pregnancy haha, it's so special - just gave birth to my first in april and I feel like the luckiest women in the world! (can you even imagine how some people get an abortion?...so sad)

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Babies are a miracle :) They change your life completley, but in the absolute best of ways.

  • 10 years ago

    Well baby's are little life-changing miracles...no wonder u now feel this way!!

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