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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 10 years ago

So I get beaten by my mom alot... Well used to?

Ya I'm 17 and my mom only stopped beating me this year.. She still throws random objects on me from time to time but ya... Me and my older sister would get beat up really badly by her when we were younger like pulling and dragging us by the hair punching spitting and kicking us and even taking objects like broom belt wooden spoon metal remote cobtrole w/e to hit us she would also insult me especially because I was a ver shy and insecure guy... To the point where I had suicidal thaught starting from age 10 and I got bollimic at age 11 I only recently got enought courage to tell my older sister about this and we cried for a while lol also being a non athletic boy due to health conditions would push my mom to calling me things like gay, faggoot , loosser, whimp ect because of that I struggled for years about my sexuality and stuff now I know I'm officially straight but she did put some doubt into me. Another thing she would do Is talk alot about rape and how men could possibly rape me and she would check my bum a couple of times a week when I was young to c if I did... Funny thing Is that we didn't even live somewhere dangerous where this might happen alot.. I'm sorry if this is so long I know I won't get anny answers or w/e but I just wanted to know if this was frequent and maybe alot of ppl had mothers like this and I pray that this isn't normal cuz if what she had showed me was the live of a mother... I'd rather never have experienced it... I know this had alot of mistakes but in writting this on my iPod and it's like 4 o'clock at night ps when I was young I told my teacher bout this the teacher confroted my mom and when I went home my mom scared the **** out of me and forced me to tell the teacher that I was liying

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  • 10 years ago
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    I am sooo sorry to hear this and I hope that my advice and the others of the Yahoo Answers Community will help. Okay so here's what you can do. You have some options.

    1.Call Child Services

    Child Services will separate you from your mom after you tell them and will talk to you can her separately so she can not force you into saying your lying.If you chose that path you can record an attack or voice record it so if she says you lying you have proof.

    2.Wait till 18.

    Your 17 so you can wait until 18 and move away to college.(if she doesn't want you to go to college or you don't have money you can get loans or sign up to national guard or military for them to pay for it.) Once you move away you can cut contact with her.

    3.Wait and sue

    This is kinda extreme but you can still do this. Wait until your 18 and sue her for child abuse, sexual harassment, and verbal abuse(She did look at you bum without your permission) You can carry out a restraining order on her and sue her for your suffering.

    This is not normal, it is obvious that your mother is angry at something and taking it out on you. Do you have a father figure? If you don't that may be it. But still just because she's angry doesn't mean she can hurt innocent children that has done nothing wrong. I hope everything works out well, best of luck!

    Source(s): Me, Laws.
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    So sorry to hear about your terrible upbringing. Whatever you do, do not kill yourself. No matter the circumstances, there will always be a good ending. I know two people who have killed themselves, one more closely than the other, and I will forever be scarred emotionally, so do not ever do that to your family. That is not a normal upbringing, your mother is abusive. It's so very evident, because had this been normal, she would not have needed to force you to lie to your teacher. I hope that, if you haven't already, that you'll soon get out of this mess which you described.

  • 10 years ago

    My mother was quite abusive too, although not that extremely. And I can't say I questioned my sexual orientation because of it or had any health problems, but I do kind of have an anger management issue after all that. It does get better as You get older and stronger, and she gets older and weaker. Time heals all wounds.

  • 10 years ago

    Start lifting get real strong. If you dont have that kinda time, take HGH. Once youre strong enough, take old yeller out back and teach her a lesson. O btw, your not the only one. My grammy used to do this to my mom and aunts.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Omg. I feel horrible for you! I seriously hope you call the cops on her! Thats so not right to do that! I feel so bad for you! I have never been hit by my parents. I hope she doesnt do anything like that again!

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