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how to compromise on sexual styles?

My wife likes to be rough when she is well in the mood, likes to bite, scratch and be hit. I like scratches and the hitting part but the biting hurts like all holy hell. How or what can I do to either subside this or help to do something else or lesson it?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Talk to her, and tell her what you just wrote ? Sounds like you have a comfortable intimacy, so explain "I like it when....., but the biting hurts like all holy hell ! " and then maybe laugh or smile so she knows it's not being snarky, just sharing what makes you feel good. Good luck !

  • 10 years ago

    Lol "subside this"...Sexual preferences are not things one can simply get over. Maybe you guys can negotiate some sort of arrangement? Like on Mondays and Wendsdays and Saturdays you do it her way and yours every other day...?

  • 10 years ago

    If you don't want to be more directly honest with her, try emphasizing the good stuff she dose. I personally like it when guys tell me exactly what to do to turn them on. Try tell her what to do with her mouth, or how hard/soft to bite

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Put a gag on her. She'll probably enjoy it, and you won't get bitten.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    basically you NEED to push her boundries... push them so far that you become more dominant that you already are. try something kinky like binding or something.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just let her know how you feel. If she loves you, she'll understand. (:

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