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I'm very conflicted about crossing the line with my girlfriend.  We've been dating for almost 4 months, and we've gotten pretty far, and lately I've been wanting to cross the line, but not willing to try.  She says she doesn't mind if I try, and says she'll let me, but I don't know...  There are reasons I want to, and reasons I don't

Reasons I do: I'm a 16-year-old male(which gets annoying); I love her(this is no lie, I really do love her); she's beautiful; she loves me; I want to find some way to show her how much I love her; I don't want to be a disappointment

Reasons I don't: I'm genophobic; I respect her; I'm worried we're moving too fast; it can greatly affect the relationship; I never liked the idea of doing this with someone; sex annoys me(it's EVERYWHERE!!!); I want to remain a virgin until I die, if possible(I have strange, strong beliefs about this); I'm insecure; we're too young(age of consent where we live is 16, but I don't think we're mature enough to handle it); I know the consequences

So what the hell do I do?  If I shouldn't do this, how do I keep from wanting to so much?  I'm about to bash my friggin head in, I'm so confused!!!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's still up to you. If you're eager to remain a virgin until you die like you said, or maybe atleast until you get married, then hold on to your principle. It's rare to guys to have such belief. I'll salute you if you're able to do that.

And you've said it, you're too young to do that so stand to it. Resist the temptations.

always b natural · Answer

if you want to stay a virgin, then go with that.  If that is your
true vocation, you need to believe in yourself, and do what 
is right for you.  You have lots of time to get deeper into
sex, there is no need to rush into anything

Anonymous · Answer

Stay away from sex,seriously you guyz only 16 year old,,,,,and sometimes sex can destroy a relationship

Jack · Answer

god made thy balls for using.-Me

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