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Very serious relationship crisis?

Me and my girlfriend are both 16 and we tried sex a while back using a condom. She did not dispose of it because her parents would see it in the bin. Now I'm on holiday, and while she was away from home visiting her dad, her mom was clearing room for storage and found the condom. This has caused an uproar in their house. She tells me the best thing to do is to tell my parents, but I can't on holiday because it will ruin it. We are going to break up after I tell them, in order to sort ourselves out and think about what the best thing to do is. How do you guys think I should break it to my parents? Really need help on this people. I would appreciate lots of feedback! Thank you!

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You are both a little young but at least you used protection, she probably should have put it in the toilet and flushed it. For now enjoy your holiday and worry about it after, tell your gf you will tell your parents but only after you come back. I would break it to whichever parent you talk to the most and whichever one you are more comfortable first. Tell them you are sorry and you know you should of waited but it happened. parents are usually more understanding of boys than girls when it comes to this. I know from experience. But i would probably avoid your gf's dad, dads are very funny about their little girls and he is probably out for your blood.

    Don't worry this has probably happened to every teenager at some point, it is very embarressing but it will blow over at some point so best to get it over with asap after your holiday.

    A lot of people are saying don't tell your parents but the chances are her parents will be wanting a chat with them when you get back, so it's better for you to come clean first. You're parents will apprechiate your honesty.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    Why should you need to break up? Stick with your girlfriend and back her up. If the two of you both felt it was the right time for you, then it's your decision, not your parents' decision. Sex should bring you both closer, not push you apart.

  • boven
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 10 years ago

    It really depends if your parents are very strict. If they're not too over the top then tell them, otherwise wait on it.

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  • 10 years ago

    you don't need to tell your parents, unless her parents are going to tell them for you...THEN go and tell them. But if its going to risk something you don't need to tell them unless you feel they can help you out, but it may just get you in trouble. Keep it a secret until you know what her parents are doing. hope i helped, dont stress

  • 10 years ago

    no you shouldn't tell your parents. it will only make the situation worse.

  • uhoh45
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    haa you don't have to tell them. not like she's prego or anything.

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