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Ex Boyfriend of 10 months has a new girlfriend 3 weeks later?

So me and my boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago, about a week later we went camping, where he broke down crying in front of me, and a decision was made that we could see other people whilst taking baby steps. Problem being he could not handle me seeing other people, whereas I could handle him seeing other people. When he found out via that I was meeting somone else he called me numerous things: slag, slut, whore, c**t, started texting me things like ''the only time I want to see your name is in the obituaries, followed by ''wait that's too good you're a waste of paper''. He started to emotionally blackmail me. Phoning me at 4am in the morning saying that he was walking on a dual carriage way becauseI had been a *****, which got me worried because he's 16 and walking on a motorway at 4 in the morning. I apparantely ruined his life completely. He doesn't have a job at all and basically is a waster. (I paid for everything in the relationship)Afterall of this he still expected me to give him the birthday presents I had bought for his day prior to the breakup.I didn't give the presents, and on the day of his birthday he said he was going to kill himself, that I ruined his birthday, and that he would slit my throat but he's too nice for that. During this time he's also logged onto my facebook account and has been sending the guy I'm slowly seeing disgusting messages,, and reading our conversations (Now changed my pw). He also had put private pictures as my profile picture. Today I found out that he has now got into a relationship with another girl. Fb official. Turns out he got to her 6 months to the day that we got together. Exact same date, and 3 weeks after our breakup. (I had text him 2 hours before saying it would have been our 6 month anniversary). Of this girl he said he had met the one, their personalities just click, so much in common etc. However 3 days after he and this girl got together he was asking me for cam sex, and asking me to meet up with him. (Birthday came after this) I would just like some advice on who is in the wrong here. Should I give him the presents for his birthday that I bought? He's also still asking me to meet up with him, and asking me to come and see him at 3am in the morning. What is up with him?

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  • 10 years ago
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    There is nothing about this boy that say you should go anywhere near him anymore. He obviously has some emotional issues and used them to terrorize you while you were broken up. And it seems to me that he's using his new relationship as a means to make you jealous. No one who claims to have found "the one" goes on to ask his ex for the things he's asking of you. Stay away from this guy. He's only going to be more trouble.

    As for the gift, I might have considered giving it to him had he been a decent person after the breakup. But after everything you've told me, I'd either return it, regift, or keep it for myself. No one like that deserves a gift as a reward for that type of behavior.

  • 5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I believe thats its a form of cheating when you are doing something that you wouldnt want your other half to see, hear, or read... even if it was harmless drunk texts, the fact that she doesnt feel comfortable enough to share them with you would make me stomach turn too. My ex always had a really good excuse for emails and texts... there was never any physical proof but the fact that he would hide them from me.. is reason enough to believe that i couldn't trust him. I am the kinda girl who thinks its extremely inappropiate to be texting and talking to exs that late at night. they should respect you relationship enough to figure out you are imposing on personal time with your significant other, the occasional "hey how have you been" i think is perfectly fine. but when your girlfriend is leaving YOU and walking away from YOU to talk secretly to someone else, and she doesnt see a problem with that? Thats a MAJOR problem.. Since youve decided to forgive it than you need to move on from that. Giving her another chance to fix the problem is a great idea, but give her the benefit of the doubt that she's gonna do it right this time. You cant hold resentment and bring it up every chance you get if you've said "lets start over". And if she F***s up this time, then you know that she's untrustworthy and its time to move on. You can loose here... show her that you are trusting her to make it right and be more appropriate about. and if she fails, its on her... not you...

  • 10 years ago

    Using her to try to make you jealous, or just using her because he feels like he needs someone to be with. She's a rebound and he's not over you, he's just putting on a facade

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  • 10 years ago

    He is a First Class Jerk/Loser- you are Well Rid of him- You Deserve Better

    Stay Away from him and Move On

    Source(s): been there & it cost me 4 yrs of my Life that I can never get back!--please Move On
  • 10 years ago

    hes just leading you on, just try your best to forget about him and move on, go out and find someone new that you will care about more than him and someone who will love you back.

    good luck!

    Source(s): http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsuSp... i really need advice, help please!!!
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    he's wrong. just slowly trying to stop talking to him. you sure that girl is new? as you say..

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    you need to get away from him.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    shame on him

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