School Drama...In need of advice?

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Im a guy and im kind of in a small group of half guys half girls but mainly have 3 close friends who are all guys and my oldest friend of about 10 years is going out with one of the girls, who is a drama queen too like your friend and makes a HUGE deal out of nothing and nearly everone has gone off her now and ive bearly seen my friend since because shes so clingy. Anyway I don't blame you for wanting to make more friends because our group isn't exactly the popular group either lol and i've been thinking about trying to come off differently to people now that ive started collage because ive also been told im quiet execept i don't really disagree with it. I think i'm quiet but im not dull really, it can be frustrating thinking thats how people see you. But when I started doing things that were considered cool, i didn't like it, I went to a festival that all the 'cool' kids went to which was boring and full of drunk people, tried alcohol but that wasn't great either and realised i prefered being a loner and being in a small group. You can make new friends if you want, why should someone else have a say in that? If lizzie can't execept it, thats her problem. you don't need her because you sound like a nice person who could have lots of friends if she wanted to.

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I have the same problem. I have other friends that are nicer to me, make me happier, yet I have this other group I sort of "belong" to and they hate me whenever I talk to someone else. and yes, they still hate boys. very odd..

they're not very nice to me either, I just can't get away from them!!

but if they're making you this fustrated, tell them they need to either get used to the fact you want to move on or you'll cut off all contact with them.

the boy situation...yeah they're immature.

soooo I guess where I'm trying to get at is, you should probably avoid being with them. until they grow up. make other friends, enjoy things, maybe they'll change for the better.

good luck!! :)

You should be straight up and say you guys are being too clingy and tell them to stop being around you SO much and if they can't get that then drop them because that could make you come across like you can't make your own decisions and no one would want to be around that.

If you think your friend lizzie is gonna turn on you then. She's not really you're real friend. I had friends who almost turned on me because of this one girl. Everybody thought, that last year she was mean & rude & a b****. But, I was like uh oh. When she had came and sat down with me at lunch. It turns out that she was just very nice. But annoying when you don't give her stuff when she asks. Then when you would ask her. She would be like you didn't give me blahblahblah. So she would say No!!! Anyways, We just stopped talking for a while. I msgs her on facebook to see if she was still mad at me. She were, she was telling me what to do about this bully. She was nosey. I wsa like look(name) stay out of it. I don't need you telling me what to do and also, I wasn't even talking about you and don't even worry. She was calling me lame and stuff. So, I decided to TELL HER OFF! That didn't work cause she got one of my so-called friends to turn against me. I was like whatever. I stopped talking to her and we talked again. It was crazy.Now, we only comment each others pictures on facebook. But she don't. Do mines, I do hers. So, we don't lose touch or anything because I'm a military brat. It seems that I always go back to the same school and state! Anyways, you should just talk to your friends the ones you have know at lunch. The other popular people, talk to them outside of school. Continue, to stay true to yourself. And if they invite you to something on the same date. Think about the person who always been their for you. Me, I never been invited to anything except when I was like 7&8. I was still unpopular. I felt like a loser too. Sad & unhappy. My so-called friend invited one of my best friends because our other best friend moved. She only wanted popular/cool/alright people coming to her sweet 16. I wasn't invited. I didn't even tell her if i was moving yet! She was like. Oh you can't come when I asked. It was so obv. Because that same week. She started talking about me, and how she thinks that I'm not ready to grow up yet. Or have any relationships(boyfriend wise.) I was like. Well. Then she asked me to leave the lunch table so she can talk about sex. She thought I wasn't ready for the convo. Because, I never really liked talked about that. Or I always joked about it. I'm a scorpio. I get along with ppl. Just not the popular/wannabees. So, now we don't talk anymore. Even though she promised she would I.M. Me on facebook and comment my stuff. She don't. So, I just stopped talking to my untrue friends. And kept my close one's by me. I let the ooneswho started the drama go and not be bothered with them. I just added them on facebook to see how they will turn out later on in life. Just to be curious. I just kept the people that were true to me. I dropped the popular wannabees. But I still talk to some of my wannabee friends. They are kind of popular now. Me. I'm not.