men, do you think chatting with someone other than your partner is cheating?

Of course it is. For me anyways.

Intimacy and sex are things that should be exclusive in a committed relationship. If my wife doesn't want to be intimate or have sex then either there's something wrong or I need to be patient. I wouldn't go out and talk about it with another woman because my wife isn't in the mood.

I understand where you're coming from when you say that it's not physical but for me, that's a technicality. Words are still exchanged and you're still imagining and discussing sex with someone other than your partner. It seems wrong to me.

If you wouldn't do it/say it in front of your partner...then you shouldn't do it/say it...

If you wouldn't want your partner to say/do the same thing with someone else...then you shouldn't say/do it...

If your relationship isn't satisfying you, then fix it or move on...sex talk isn't a "need"...a need is something you die without (air to breath, nutrition for your body, shelter to protect you from the elements, etc)...attention, chatting, sex talk, sexual activity, etc are not NEEDS...that doesn't mean they aren't important but they are DESIRES (we can live without them, most of us just prefer to have them in our lives)...

It's not okay for you to disrespect your partner...if he's okay with you chatting up other guys, that's fine...if you're hiding your behavior from him or he knows you've done it and wants it to stop, then you're in the wrong (and it will almost certainly ruin your relationship at some point)...

I trust the somewhat some posters that i would not evaluate finding at %. or examining memories to be cheating, the place it starts to pass a line for me is the changing of e-mails and nude %.. i'd freak out with the aid of fact i'd be questioning "how long till they are changing something??" i'd communicate over with him and enable him understand what you observed and what you do or do no longer locate perfect approximately it. acceptable of success.

my bf thought it was cheating

just sayin!

but if your guy cant keep u satisfied then u should have some lee way,

tell him that u wont ever be with this guy and that u love him

(my guy still hated it so I gave it up , but then my guy will sleep with me at least once or twice a week)

Would you be texting/IMing this guy if your partner was sitting right next to you?