The girl I love has more fun talking to me as a friend ?

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I met this girl who is everything I've been waiting for, its like what you see in the movies, she's like the girl version of me and there was a connection since our first conversation, it freaked me out when we first talked cuz I felt like I was talking to myself lol, every girl I've ever dated there was always pros and cons about them, but with her there is nothing but pros! every second of everyday I think about her and the only dreams I remember having now are the ones that she's in,  and all was going good untill one day she said that she feels better talking like friends, but I never done anything to put me in the friend zone and she says she wants to be more than friends but she is afraid if something happens to us that we'll never talk agian so she's playing it safe, and I tell her exactly how I feel and some of it should probably  be in a movie lol, so we tried again but she said she just feels more like friends!? I can't stand talking to her knowing that she thinks were friends while I'm in love with her but I'd rather kill myself than stop talking to her, and just thinking about dating I'll have to compare and contrast them from her because she's everything I ever wanted! I honestly need to know what to do cuz I've tried everything! Please help

umm · Accepted Answer

Just stay her friend....

if you have allot in common thats just friendship, 

there is difference in what couples have in common, then when friends have in common..

for example, A good friend of the opposite gender might like a band that i like....We are better friends...doesn't mean she like me, HOWEVER i might i think we have things in common just because shes REALLY PRETTY, Then you are just lusting and you want her because she is pretty....You know what i mean?

And example of what lovers might have in common is the way The couple LIKES to be treated in the Relationship....
its kinda weird..
you really need to talk to about what she likes and what she would want in a relationship, then you might see the real her, the way she would be in a relationship.

hj · Answer

u no what xctly sme happend wid me( though i didnt lyk much). She said me the same and also this that she fear losing me n she truly luv me haha. 

The day when she said she seriously luv me,i went to meet her. I said her that i luv her too. 
Next day she said she cant love coz she enjoy friendship more. 

I felt annoyed ,angry n sad. I asked her for reason she didnt teme . Later an argument tuk place , i said her few bad stufs out of anger and everything came to an end.

Later i came to know i waz just a joker in her lyf.lolx. 
Now whenever i see her she try to talk random ugly guys to make me fel jelous lolx.
Say thanks to god who  has gift me wid evrythng.

Julian Eng · Answer

You're being greedy child, be thankful you're not a 90 year old virgin. Poor chaps. At least she wants a relationship, going slow is better than not going at all. remember "you never realize the value of something until it's gone."

? · Answer

The best thing you can do is move on staying friends with this girl will make matters worse.

Smileitsuitsyou · Answer

There is nothing you can do, but I advise you stay friends with her :) you cant make her love you

trust me, you will find someone. Friends can love their friends too! if you stay friends with her who says you cant be friends for life?

friends want their friends to be happy

tarvin · Answer

end enjoying females like that! and he or she appears like worry. simply by fact if a guy compliment my boobs or in spite of inappropriately, i could thoroughly stay away from that guy for being disrespectful! -_-

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