Will sex save our relationship?

Hmmm...You don't say how old you are or how long you've been married. I assume you're a woman. If you've been married a few years, I would say that 4 months isn't such a long time. Things naturally slow down after a while. Is he well over 40? Maybe he's not feeling well. Some medical problems make it difficult to get an erection and he might be embarrassed to admit it so he just says he's not interested.

No it won't. You can't have sex unless you are ready to and you take the responsibilities that come with it. He might leave you after he got his or you might get pregnant. Also think everything through protection etc. Also remember and don't forget that there is an emotional toll that comes with sex. If you give him everything and he throws it away that won't be good either so make sure its what you both want to do. =)

Only when you are ready. Sex can ruin a good relationship just like a relationship can ruin good sex.

If you are happy to go for it you could become closer. If you aren't 100% then don't do it.

No, it will further complicate things. Besides you shouldnt have it yet, im sure you'll hat hearing it, but it isnt good, what if you get pregnant? It has been awhile, but sex is an add-on to a relationship, if you cant keep things good and interesting without it, you shouldnt be together. You have been dating awhile though, which is good, it is your choice, I'm just suggesting no, it's not good to have complications when it's easily avoided.

No, not in this situation. Your both virgins and putting too much emphasis on what you think sex might do for your relationships. I advise against this and if your bored and not really happy then just break up.

it wont save your relationship by any means. you guys are young, there will be many more relationships. and please if youre gonna have sex ( because no matter what people say ultimately you will do what you feel you should) use protection.

i will not save your relationship because eventually that will get boring as well. you dont want to lose your virginity because your relationship got boring.

no !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't do it! please don't! if you two are losing interest in each other it's better to end the relationship. think again - you don't want to live the rest of your life with regret , do you?

No, ur jus gna regret in in the end.

You are too young girl!!!